Sh*tty condoms again!!

[Rainman4707]

My gf wants marriage, kids etc. Not right now (she has other things going on atm) This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.

She isn't taking any contraceptive. Now to be honest, we have been having unprotected sex for a while, but now since I've told her that i'm not yet ready for kids, she is wanting me to wear a condom I'm not paying £6 for 6 condoms, id rather go without.

I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.

 

[Desdinova]

This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.

I don't want to wear a condom.

Have fun finding the happy medium in that situation, if it exists.

 

[Billtx49]

Accept the condom price and use one or get her on birth control, it's cheaper than having a kid pop out. Serious life changing event there.

 

[Fzatf]

My gf wants marriage, kids etc. Not right now (she has other things going on atm) This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.

She isn't taking any contraceptive. Now to be honest, we have been having unprotected sex for a while, but now since I've told her that i'm not yet ready for kids, she is wanting me to wear a condom I'm not paying £6 for 6 condoms, id rather go without.

I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.

This is how I ended up with my daughter. I highly advise you use contraception before one mistake lasts a lifetime.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Seriously? Be a man. Suck it up and wear the rubber or find a new chick to blow your load in.

 

[Dingo]

£6 rubbers vs. semen vermin.... Easy choice.

 

[Reykhel]

Up the bum......no harm done.

 

[BeExcellent]

So let's understand what you are really saying here.

You love her & love doing her raw. Got it.
You do not want to be a father right now (well not really RIGHT now).

She is not using contraception.
She very much wants a baby and REALLY wants you to be the father. Got it.

Of COURSE she wants you doing her raw and climaxing inside her! She figured you'll warm right up to fatherhood once she's pregnant. She also figures you'll marry her at that point.

Pregnancy WILL happen under the parameters above. So what are you more concerned about? Pregnancy? Wearing a condom?

The thing you ought be MOST concerned about which doesn't appear to register with you is the fact that she is wholly ignoring your wishes and desires in favor of her own. THAT is the elephant in your bed dear.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.

This is why there are 7 billion people on planet Earth.

Mother Nature is very clever...

 

[Rainman4707]

So let's understand what you are really saying here.

You love her & love doing her raw. Got it.
You do not want to be a father right now (well not really RIGHT now).

She is not using contraception.
She very much wants a baby and REALLY wants you to be the father. Got it.

Of COURSE she wants you doing her raw and climaxing inside her! She figured you'll warm right up to fatherhood once she's pregnant. She also figures you'll marry her at that point.

Pregnancy WILL happen under the parameters above. So what are you more concerned about? Pregnancy? Wearing a condom?

The thing you ought be MOST concerned about which doesn't appear to register with you is the fact that she is wholly ignoring your wishes and desires in favor of her own. THAT is the elephant in your bed dear.

Good post.

I wouldn't say I love her, more like really fond of her.
I think most people would prefer raw sex.

 

[Rainman4707]

Semen analysis say it is important that it should not be longer than seven days since he last ejaculated for your test.

I'm not saying i'm going to do this, but I wonder what the chances are of getting her pregnant if I have'nt ejaculated for two weeks. Some of them will be dead right.

 

[BeExcellent]

Good post.

I wouldn't say I love her, more like really fond of her.
I think most people would prefer raw sex.

Ok you are fond of her. You obviously like the sex.

You don't love her & don't want children with her. Meet other women & let this one go. You aren't being fair to her or honest with yourself.

Of course raw sex is better. How bad do you want to father a child with her as the mother?

That is a LIFELONG obligation my friend. It means this woman is FOREVER in your life, unless you desert your child, and some men do that too.

You need to back away from this, think with your brains for a minute and consider what is going to happen.

Don't cry here when she turns up pregnant and it's yours. You are playing Russian roulette each time you shag her.

 

[Rainman4707]

Ok you are fond of her. You obviously like the sex.

You don't love her & don't want children with her. Meet other women & let this one go. You aren't being fair to her or honest with yourself.

Of course raw sex is better. How bad do you want to father a child with her as the mother?

That is a LIFELONG obligation my friend. It means this woman is FOREVER in your life, unless you desert your child, and some men do that too.

You need to back away from this, think with your brains for a minute and consider what is going to happen.

Don't cry here when she turns up pregnant and it's yours. You are playing Russian roulette each time you shag her.

My gut tells me that me & her wont work out, but I still think there is a chance for us because we get on so well. Love is a funny thing. My gut might be right, but i'm not willing to throw the towel in yet. I wont finish with her if I still think there is a chance for us.

 

[sazc]

My gut tells me that me & her wont work out, but I still think there is a chance for us because we get on so well. Love is a funny thing. My gut might be right, but i'm not willing to throw the towel in yet. I wont finish with her if I still think there is a chance for us.

If it's a girl will you name it after me?

Ok you are fond of her. You obviously like the sex.

You don't love her & don't want children with her. Meet other women & let this one go. You aren't being fair to her or honest with yourself.

Of course raw sex is better. How bad do you want to father a child with her as the mother?

That is a LIFELONG obligation my friend. It means this woman is FOREVER in your life, unless you desert your child, and some men do that too.

You need to back away from this, think with your brains for a minute and consider what is going to happen.

Don't cry here when she turns up pregnant and it's yours. You are playing Russian roulette each time you shag her.

of course he will cry here, they always do......

 

[switch7]

My gut tells me that me & her wont work out, but I still think there is a chance for us because we get on so well. Love is a funny thing. My gut might be right, but i'm not willing to throw the towel in yet. I wont finish with her if I still think there is a chance for us.

You really think you are gonna last a life time with a woman who you don't love? It's hard enough to last a lifetime with a woman you do love.

 

[sazc]

here you go...

Plan B One-Step® Emergency oral over the counter contraception that helps prevent pregnancy when taken w/in 72 hours after unprotected sex/birth control failure
http://www.planbonestep.com/FAQ.aspx

 

[Tenacity]

My gf wants marriage, kids etc. Not right now (she has other things going on atm) This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.

She isn't taking any contraceptive. Now to be honest, we have been having unprotected sex for a while, but now since I've told her that i'm not yet ready for kids, she is wanting me to wear a condom I'm not paying £6 for 6 condoms, id rather go without.

I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.

I can't wait until Vasalgel gets here: https://www.parsemus.org/projects/vasalgel/

 

[BeExcellent]

here you go...

Plan B One-Step® Emergency oral over the counter contraception that helps prevent pregnancy when taken w/in 72 hours after unprotected sex/birth control failure
http://www.planbonestep.com/FAQ.aspx

Now that is going to be an eye opening conversation when she refuses to take it.

Trouble ahead friends.

 

[Billtx49]

Now that is going to be an eye opening conversation when she refuses to take it.

Trouble ahead friends.

Looks like the classic trap by pregnancy routine to me also.
Hopefully he can separate his brain from his D before his life takes a completely different direction on him..…

 

[RichardTheFrog]

In the USA, they give them out for free at the Health Department. Is it not the same in the UK?