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Sexual Exhaustion..... heard of it?

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I'm not sure where this belongs but I'll post here.

This goes out to all the guys who masterbate, or, masterbate too much

Google Sexual Exhaustion and read what info is on the net, about it.

I hae been having some issues with decreased aggressivness.... Not feeling overly excited or driven, as of late and I've narrowed it down to too much sex and masturbation.

I never thought such a thing could affect a man so much, but have decided to quit wanking for as long as i can, and get my rocks off only with girls.

I haven't nutted in almost 2 weeks (the last time I got laid), and I can't get over how fired up and intense I feel. The real man that's always been in there is coming out and I can sense it in all my interactions and in everything I'm doing.

I can only almost equate it (as geeky as this may sound, I'm not a geeky guy) to becoming stronger in the force, a la Star Wars.
I can feel more power surging through me.

All the depression and anxietyI've been battling on and off has completley lifted. I was sexually exhausted from years of too much masturbation AND too much sex. It all boils down to what makes a man a man. His testosterone.

Certain things happen in your brain when you orgasm and having frequent orgasms is incredibly bad for your mental well being. It becomes an addiction, and can cause a plethora of side effects.

Everyday, I feel a bit stronger and more alive and I'm destined to stop wanking, for good.


Any thoughts?
 

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its just pent up sexual energy your feeding off of.

i think masturbation rules as long as you dont feel depressed after you do it hahah.
 

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I haven't self-masturbated in over a month, and as a result, I feel more outgoing, more talkative, and more aggressive/bold in my approach with people in general, not just women, but especially the women. I think it's because my mind, now, is subconsciously pushing me to ravage and mate with these females, and it takes almost everything I have to calm these natural instincts down.
 

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
I haven't self-masturbated in over a month, and as a result, I feel more outgoing, more talkative, and more aggressive/bold in my approach with people in general, not just women, but especially the women. I think it's because my mind, now, is subconsciously pushing me to ravage and mate with these females, and it takes almost everything I have to calm these natural instincts down.
That's EXACTLY what it is
 

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I am dating a chick - and my friends refer to her as a the devil woman - because she sucks the life out of me....

Literally she wants the d#ck all of the time.

This sucks the energy/desire to go after other chicks. Basically she's fvcking me into passivness. When I'm out with the guys, I just don't have the drive anymore to "hunt" for poon.

It works both ways.


a nice problem to have though,.
 

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calm down, lets not turn this rape into a murder

I used to beat my d!ck like it owed me money... then..

While working at my pool I've heard theres some other effects to over-masturbation/ masturbation period... one being dark under-eye circles....

This old asian guy, whos a doctor and has a number of other crazy talents, like ball-room dancing, asian hollistic healing methods, singing... he taught himself how to swim!.. Anyway..

He explained to me and a colleague that ejaculate is extremely rich in vitamins and nutrients.. or rather, it takes A LOT of vitamins and nutrients to CREATE sperm/semen... so the more you discharge, the less the rest of your body has access to these valuable resources - hence leading to depression, dark-under eye circles, and a variety of other things - like the loss of sex drive..

interesting stuff. my colleague stopped masturbating that day, I guess he could relate...
 

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I find it fascinating. I'm gonna go as long as i can without stroking the bishop. I'll get off with women and that's it.

Even then, it'd be cool to learn tantra and how to orgasm without ejaculating. Some men can do it, so I've heard
 

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Yeah I can say that when I'm spankin the monkey on the reg (more than 2 or 3 times per week) I lose my drive to get laid and become the most boring guy to be around. When I stop though my mind is always racing with witty or funny things to say. I have stopped watching porn entirely as of 3 days ago and since then I already got laid.
 

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It all comes down to balls.

Ever watch some of these porn actors? You can tell which ones are over-worked because their nuts have literally shrunken down from so much ejaculation. Some dont even have balls...just a rough patch of scrotum where the family jewels should be!

Game is 90% balls and 10% finesse.
 

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Your testosterone levels tend to peak (and then go back to its baseline level) after a week of abstinence -- which is probably why you feel so energized. I forget where, but there exists a study about it. Try to google for it
 

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This is a good thread....and I do agree that you can do it to much especially if you have one nut (like me) you can not even look a woman in the eye....even watching to much porn can cause the same effect...because lets face it...you do not watch it for the plot. I have seen it translate into the bedroom to.....I have no emotion and use her ass to masterbate instead of my hands I dont even orgasm becasue it does not feel like my hand, the woman loves it cause I keep going like the energizer bunny like freakin toy no emotion but for me its no fun at all...so after reading all this ENUFF IS ENUFF no more self love..only with a woman present
 
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