I have been with my girlfriend about 8 months, she loves me and I love her. She is a sweet and affectionate girl who I want to be with for a long time to come.
To start with the sex was amazing. She really throws herself into it and was always trying hard to please me. But I like to take control during sex and be spontaneous. During foreplay I like to surprise and tease her and during sex I like to move her into different positions. This is how it used to be and we both loved it!
But now she has started telling me what to do. Like I'm kissing her thighs and she'll tell me to feel her breasts instead. I'm trying to finger her gspot and she tells me to work on her cl!t. Then when I come to fvck her she tells me to touch her some more first. By the time we finally have sex, I'm bored and just want to bust. Then during sex, I try to get her in a position I like and she's like "No, I want to do it this way" or "No, that hurts".
Her telling me what to do and what not to do is a total turn off! I find it kinda selfish too.
I love this girl a lot and she hasn't done anything disrespectful towards me, but her demands during sex are causing me to get resentful. After we had sex the other night, I was cold with her and left feeling uptight.
I thought about one of two things. During sex I could lie there quietly and show no signs of pleasure or I could talk to her about it. I am really not sure what to say to her though and how to bring it up.
Any ideas?
To start with the sex was amazing. She really throws herself into it and was always trying hard to please me. But I like to take control during sex and be spontaneous. During foreplay I like to surprise and tease her and during sex I like to move her into different positions. This is how it used to be and we both loved it!
But now she has started telling me what to do. Like I'm kissing her thighs and she'll tell me to feel her breasts instead. I'm trying to finger her gspot and she tells me to work on her cl!t. Then when I come to fvck her she tells me to touch her some more first. By the time we finally have sex, I'm bored and just want to bust. Then during sex, I try to get her in a position I like and she's like "No, I want to do it this way" or "No, that hurts".
Her telling me what to do and what not to do is a total turn off! I find it kinda selfish too.
I love this girl a lot and she hasn't done anything disrespectful towards me, but her demands during sex are causing me to get resentful. After we had sex the other night, I was cold with her and left feeling uptight.
I thought about one of two things. During sex I could lie there quietly and show no signs of pleasure or I could talk to her about it. I am really not sure what to say to her though and how to bring it up.
Any ideas?