metsfanof89
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Ok, I am 17 years old, but had to come here for some serious answers. I don't really know many adults with who I can ask these questions, so I wanted to ask here.
Why don't relationships from high school last?
I have been going out with my girlfriend (16) for over a year now. She's a Junior, I'm a Senior in High School. I think I understand why everyone says that you never marry your high school sweet heart, and that is because it is the first girl that you really love, and you really don't know what you want because you can't compare her to anything else. You really don't know what you want or don't want from a girl.
With this said, my girlfriend is amazing. I know she is my first real girlfriend, and the first girl I really loved, but I seriouly feel that I could marry her. She is exactly like me, and I'm exactly like her. We love exactly the same things, get along perfect, and would rather hang out with eachother then do anything. I tell her I want to marry her and live with her forever allt he time, as does she. Our relationship is perfect, with the one exception of one thing that she does. She doesn't always tell me the truth about things, even if it's somethng stupid. She will lie about it, and I will have to rip the truth out of her. Other then this, there is nothing I don't like about her. I know trust is a huge issue, but I feel that it's because she is young (as I am), and still needs to mature a little.
My parents hate the fact that we are so attached to eachother at such a young age. My mom always tells me to get off the phone with her, or tells me she doesn't want me seeing her on both Friday and Saturday nights. THey really give me a hard time about seeing her or talking to her so much. The say that I should experience other girls to see what I really want, but I really feel like if I break up wtih her, she will be gone forever, and even if I tried to get her back, the feelings and conection may neve be the same. How do I know that I will find another girl who is better?
So, please tell me why high school sweet hearts never work out? Another thing I was thinking was when you go to college, and you go to different colleges, or if one (like me) wants to become something that will require a lot of studying (physical therapy), and may not have time to be how I am now, and always talk and be with her. Also,the temptations of college sometimes break people up.
So, what's the deal?
Why don't they work?
Are you married to your high school sweet-heart?
Do you miss that girl?
Did you love that girl more then your wife? or just as much?
Did you feel like you wanted to marry her, and when you broke up, you met another girl that you loved more?
Sorry for such a long post, but I need some serious lessons on this, because I really don't understand it all. Thanks.
Why don't relationships from high school last?
I have been going out with my girlfriend (16) for over a year now. She's a Junior, I'm a Senior in High School. I think I understand why everyone says that you never marry your high school sweet heart, and that is because it is the first girl that you really love, and you really don't know what you want because you can't compare her to anything else. You really don't know what you want or don't want from a girl.
With this said, my girlfriend is amazing. I know she is my first real girlfriend, and the first girl I really loved, but I seriouly feel that I could marry her. She is exactly like me, and I'm exactly like her. We love exactly the same things, get along perfect, and would rather hang out with eachother then do anything. I tell her I want to marry her and live with her forever allt he time, as does she. Our relationship is perfect, with the one exception of one thing that she does. She doesn't always tell me the truth about things, even if it's somethng stupid. She will lie about it, and I will have to rip the truth out of her. Other then this, there is nothing I don't like about her. I know trust is a huge issue, but I feel that it's because she is young (as I am), and still needs to mature a little.
My parents hate the fact that we are so attached to eachother at such a young age. My mom always tells me to get off the phone with her, or tells me she doesn't want me seeing her on both Friday and Saturday nights. THey really give me a hard time about seeing her or talking to her so much. The say that I should experience other girls to see what I really want, but I really feel like if I break up wtih her, she will be gone forever, and even if I tried to get her back, the feelings and conection may neve be the same. How do I know that I will find another girl who is better?
So, please tell me why high school sweet hearts never work out? Another thing I was thinking was when you go to college, and you go to different colleges, or if one (like me) wants to become something that will require a lot of studying (physical therapy), and may not have time to be how I am now, and always talk and be with her. Also,the temptations of college sometimes break people up.
So, what's the deal?
Why don't they work?
Are you married to your high school sweet-heart?
Do you miss that girl?
Did you love that girl more then your wife? or just as much?
Did you feel like you wanted to marry her, and when you broke up, you met another girl that you loved more?
Sorry for such a long post, but I need some serious lessons on this, because I really don't understand it all. Thanks.