so i havent been too sexually active until recently. i had only ****ed one girl until about a year ago when i was on my second. this girl was kinda ugly and i was just doing her in desperation. the third time when we went to have sex i had a real hard time getting an errection and i didnt know what it was. i thought maybe it was just becasue the girl was ugly.
so then about 6 months ago i started hooking up w/ this really hot chick. first time we hooked up i was completely flacid. it took me a long time, months, before it started working, and even then, it was hard to get it up.
during this time period i was extremly anxious bout my errection problems. i even tried buying pills online in desperation but they dindt work at all.
i put a post up here and talked to my friends and they said i should see a doctor. the doctor gave me some **** about being in alove w/ a girl and all this.. basically it was just humiliating and didnt fix anything.
i stopped seeing this girl because i moved just as things were starting to work out better sexually.
so since then i had anotehr one night stand. i wasnt using a condom and could hardly keep an errection. i never ended up getting off and ended up just giving up.
a couple weeks later i started dating another girl. i really liked her actaully, and i was very comfortable around her.
i went to have sex with her and my penis wasnt working. itold her i think its performance anxiety and its not her at all. i had sex with her, but it was very labored to get it up. and when i had an errection it was very weak and i kept going flacid during sex. and i never came either. tried it again in the AM and same thing happeend. then this girl moved to austrailia, she was just here on travel.
i am problably not comfortable because ireally am not very sexually experienced. i have had sex less than ten times. so maybe that is why i am nervous when in the act combined w/ my past failures.
i also find that sex feels very good at first then the girl gets loosened up and too wet and it no longer feels as good. and i didnt use a condom on the past two girls so its not an issue with that.
this is a serious problem for me now. should i see a psyciatrist? would this even help? or just humiliate me again. it is not a physical problem i am fine when masterbating.
should i try some of that topical cream? try to get ahold of some viagra?
any help/advice or similar experiences would be appreciated.
thanks guys.
so then about 6 months ago i started hooking up w/ this really hot chick. first time we hooked up i was completely flacid. it took me a long time, months, before it started working, and even then, it was hard to get it up.
during this time period i was extremly anxious bout my errection problems. i even tried buying pills online in desperation but they dindt work at all.
i put a post up here and talked to my friends and they said i should see a doctor. the doctor gave me some **** about being in alove w/ a girl and all this.. basically it was just humiliating and didnt fix anything.
i stopped seeing this girl because i moved just as things were starting to work out better sexually.
so since then i had anotehr one night stand. i wasnt using a condom and could hardly keep an errection. i never ended up getting off and ended up just giving up.
a couple weeks later i started dating another girl. i really liked her actaully, and i was very comfortable around her.
i went to have sex with her and my penis wasnt working. itold her i think its performance anxiety and its not her at all. i had sex with her, but it was very labored to get it up. and when i had an errection it was very weak and i kept going flacid during sex. and i never came either. tried it again in the AM and same thing happeend. then this girl moved to austrailia, she was just here on travel.
i am problably not comfortable because ireally am not very sexually experienced. i have had sex less than ten times. so maybe that is why i am nervous when in the act combined w/ my past failures.
i also find that sex feels very good at first then the girl gets loosened up and too wet and it no longer feels as good. and i didnt use a condom on the past two girls so its not an issue with that.
this is a serious problem for me now. should i see a psyciatrist? would this even help? or just humiliate me again. it is not a physical problem i am fine when masterbating.
should i try some of that topical cream? try to get ahold of some viagra?
any help/advice or similar experiences would be appreciated.
thanks guys.
