Very interesting evening last night. I went to go see Harry Potter with this girl I have been dating on and off for years. So my ex of 5 years (of which I broke up with about a year ago) showed up with her now husband who she been seing for a year. When I told her I was moving last year (we had been broken up about a two months or so) about a month later she told me she met this guy and they were serious. Before we split she asked me to marry her adn I told her I wasnt ready so we split ways.
So this is how it played out. Me and the girl I was with was in line to get Nachos and the ex pretended like she didnt see me like I did her but it was virtually impossible not too as she was only 5 feet away with her husband and some other woman. They came in a group. So she left her husband to go find the others in the theater. At this point I wasn't sure what I was feeling. It wasn't jealousy. It wasn't pain. I think it was nervousness of the situation. No one could tell how I felt...not even the girl with me.
In the theater I made a point to sit on the other side of the theater and in front so I couldnt see her. Although I could hear her laughing out loud on several occasions so the whole theater could hear her before the movie started i choose not to look. When we left her and her group stayed in their seats and I just pretended I didn't see her and walked out. I didnt try to make her jealous with cuddling with the plate or holding hands etc. I just kept things normal.
I could honestly say she was wife material. A real good woman. But I couldnt get past her weight. If she managed to become a skinny minny it probably would have been a match made in heaven. I just couldnt get past it mentally.
Just one of those things. Concerning the situation I guess I did alright by just playing it cool. I can honestly say I am over her. Not sure what the nervousness was about.
So this is how it played out. Me and the girl I was with was in line to get Nachos and the ex pretended like she didnt see me like I did her but it was virtually impossible not too as she was only 5 feet away with her husband and some other woman. They came in a group. So she left her husband to go find the others in the theater. At this point I wasn't sure what I was feeling. It wasn't jealousy. It wasn't pain. I think it was nervousness of the situation. No one could tell how I felt...not even the girl with me.
In the theater I made a point to sit on the other side of the theater and in front so I couldnt see her. Although I could hear her laughing out loud on several occasions so the whole theater could hear her before the movie started i choose not to look. When we left her and her group stayed in their seats and I just pretended I didn't see her and walked out. I didnt try to make her jealous with cuddling with the plate or holding hands etc. I just kept things normal.
I could honestly say she was wife material. A real good woman. But I couldnt get past her weight. If she managed to become a skinny minny it probably would have been a match made in heaven. I just couldnt get past it mentally.
Just one of those things. Concerning the situation I guess I did alright by just playing it cool. I can honestly say I am over her. Not sure what the nervousness was about.
