TheException
Master Don Juan
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"Game is ever-vigilant". This is a statement that I repeat over and over and over again......and for good reason. 80% of the men in the world are chumps. And when some of the men in this category get into a relationship(finally), they are at high risk of collapsing like a house of cards and finding their way back to the pits of "chump city".
The game is NOT over simply because you have entered an exclusive relationship....in fact the game has just reached the next level. It is extremely easy for a guy to relax and slip back into old habits when hes got that "sure thing" going, but sooner or later things WILL get rocky if the man allows it. The word "will" denotes something that is "100% to happen", it is not an estimation, a guess, or prediction.....it is a matter of fact and the only question is "when?". Today lets look at a real life experience in the form of continuing to recognize bad behavior. and why it is important to notice.
Like I mentioned earlier, guys in relationships tend to relax and think everything is clear skies. They explain away every bad thing about their new lover and backwards rationalize unacceptable behavior or he11.......dont even notice the behavior. Below is an example of a situation that arose between me and my girlfriend.....and how I was judging the entire thing, even though we are in love and have been dating for quite awhile....REMEMBER....game is "ever-vigilant" it does NOT STOP just because you are in a relationship.
*random number texts gf "hey"*
HB: You think I should respond?
Exception: Go for it
TEXT CONVERSATION
GF: Who is this
#: Jake
GF: Jake who?
#: Riley
*GF explains to me that this is some guy she dated for "2 weeks" in high school*
GF: I have a boyfriend, why are you texting me.
# : I graduated college and am coming back home for a few weeks before I start my job.
GF: Doesnt change the fact that I have a boyfriend. We arent meeting up.
She passes with flying colors.
This is easily a scenario that a rocky relationship could take a plunge on. If my girlfriend had low interest in myself and of the relationship she could have explained this one away as "oh we just want to catch up" or anything of that sort. There is a HUGE difference between a woman hanging out with chump beta orbiters and a woman hanging out with an ex love interest........members on sosuave may not see the difference and demand she never hang out with ANY other males.....but that is foolish advice and fear misplaced. THESE....are the type of situations to avoid and to see how you girlfriend/plate/wife handles them......is almost a "male sh1t test". You should be judging and if she handles it wrong.....you confront. This would be an appropriate time for a "thunderbolt".
1. Never ever ever ever think your woman is perfect and that she is incapable of cheating.
2. Never ever ever ever stop judging behavior and recognizing sh1tty behavior.
3. Women with high interest in the relationship and attraction for the boyfriend will quickly dismiss any other male competition for fear of losing her man. Its not really about limiting male encounters....so much as if another man declares sexual interest.....that she quickly reject them and not entertain them.
4. Sex is a great barometer of a healthy relationship. Are you having sex atleast 4-5 times a week? Is she often "too tired" for sex?
The game is NOT over simply because you have entered an exclusive relationship....in fact the game has just reached the next level. It is extremely easy for a guy to relax and slip back into old habits when hes got that "sure thing" going, but sooner or later things WILL get rocky if the man allows it. The word "will" denotes something that is "100% to happen", it is not an estimation, a guess, or prediction.....it is a matter of fact and the only question is "when?". Today lets look at a real life experience in the form of continuing to recognize bad behavior. and why it is important to notice.
Like I mentioned earlier, guys in relationships tend to relax and think everything is clear skies. They explain away every bad thing about their new lover and backwards rationalize unacceptable behavior or he11.......dont even notice the behavior. Below is an example of a situation that arose between me and my girlfriend.....and how I was judging the entire thing, even though we are in love and have been dating for quite awhile....REMEMBER....game is "ever-vigilant" it does NOT STOP just because you are in a relationship.
*random number texts gf "hey"*
HB: You think I should respond?
Exception: Go for it
TEXT CONVERSATION
GF: Who is this
#: Jake
GF: Jake who?
#: Riley
*GF explains to me that this is some guy she dated for "2 weeks" in high school*
GF: I have a boyfriend, why are you texting me.
# : I graduated college and am coming back home for a few weeks before I start my job.
GF: Doesnt change the fact that I have a boyfriend. We arent meeting up.
She passes with flying colors.
This is easily a scenario that a rocky relationship could take a plunge on. If my girlfriend had low interest in myself and of the relationship she could have explained this one away as "oh we just want to catch up" or anything of that sort. There is a HUGE difference between a woman hanging out with chump beta orbiters and a woman hanging out with an ex love interest........members on sosuave may not see the difference and demand she never hang out with ANY other males.....but that is foolish advice and fear misplaced. THESE....are the type of situations to avoid and to see how you girlfriend/plate/wife handles them......is almost a "male sh1t test". You should be judging and if she handles it wrong.....you confront. This would be an appropriate time for a "thunderbolt".
1. Never ever ever ever think your woman is perfect and that she is incapable of cheating.
2. Never ever ever ever stop judging behavior and recognizing sh1tty behavior.
3. Women with high interest in the relationship and attraction for the boyfriend will quickly dismiss any other male competition for fear of losing her man. Its not really about limiting male encounters....so much as if another man declares sexual interest.....that she quickly reject them and not entertain them.
4. Sex is a great barometer of a healthy relationship. Are you having sex atleast 4-5 times a week? Is she often "too tired" for sex?