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Senior Don Juan
This is the third and final part of my "Getting Girls to Chase You" series of posts.
In the original post, I talked about the mentality necessary to be the man that the ladies want to pursue.
In part two, I introduced the King mentality to this forum and laid out exactly how to become a King and how a King should go about building and maintaining his kingdom (also known as his life, interests, and passions).
In part three, I will now give all Kings and Kings in training a detailed lesson on how to prevent a man's inherent weaknesses from destroying them while they are building or maintaining their kingdoms (lives).
This series of posts would not be complete if I didn't give any information on what a king should look out for and how protect himself and his kingdom (life).
It is not enough to just build your strengths, people who have wisdom are aware of their own weaknesses so that they can minimize them or protect themselves from those who would seek to exploit them.
First, recognize and understand the fact that everyone, male or female, has weaknesses that are just part of our nature.
Women, for example, have weaknesses that are a result of the powerful influence that estrogen and their emotions have over them.
So just what are a man's weaknesses and where do they come from?
Since the beginning of time, women have used their knowledge of a man's three greatest weaknesses to manipulate men and to control them.
All of the games and bullsh*t that a woman will try to play on you are based on their knowing just where to strike, like a skilled martial artist.
What are these three weaknesses that every man has and that women blatantly exploit?
They are:
1) A man's sex drive
2) A man's ego
3) A man's need for comfort
Every man alive has these three weaknesses and is the extent to which a woman is able to use them against you that determines how much of a mack or a sucker you are.
A true player or mack doesn't let a woman use these inherent male weaknesses to keep him under control or to use him.
A smart, experienced player is aware of these weaknesses and protects himself by not playing into these games.
A sucker, simp, AFC, nice guy, lame, punk a$$, square, pushover, etc. will allow a woman to play him using one or any of these three male weaknesses against him.
But just how does a woman go about using these weaknesses to their advantage?
Let's start with the greatest weakness of them all, a man's sex drive.
It is no secret that men are weak for p*ssy and just about every man has fallen prey to this weakness at one time or another.
The #1 weapon a woman has to manipulate a man is her sex appeal, and again, this one is a no-brainer and most men with any sense or experience with women learn this quickly.
It amazes me that even though the sex appeal weapon is so commonly used by women and men see it all the time, men still fall for this sh*t all the time.
The other two weapons, however, are a bit more sophisticated because they appeal to a man's psychological rather than sexual needs.
Here's where the games get much more complicated.
The #2 weapon a woman will use to control a man is manipulating his ego.
All men have an ego whether they think they do or not (actually all human beings have an ego).
But just how does a woman go about using this tool?
A woman will boost or challenge a man's ego depending on the kind of man she is dealing with.
It is very similar to the way that a great coach goes about motivating his players to perform well.
In sports, some players respond to a coach who is like a stern father yelling or screaming at them, pointing out their mistakes or shortcomings, and challenging their manhood or how much heart or machismo they have.
Then you have other players that need to be built up mentally or emotionally and respond better to a more supportive or nurturing approach.
They respond best to a coach who points out their strengths and praises them and encourages them to do even better or tells them that they believe in them.
Women use this same strategy of good cop or bad cop on men and they feel a man out to see which strategy will work best on him.
The #3 weapon is no less insidious and conniving as #2.
Women have long known that men are simple creatures who like to be made to feel comfortable.
What are some of the ways that they accomplish this?
One of the most well known ways is by acquiring culinary skills and capturing a man's heart by way of his stomach.
Ever heard of the old saying, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach".
I've had a few chicks use that bullsh*t on me to get me relaxed and comfortable and to let my guard down and once you let your guard down, it's like letting the barbarians through the gates.
Men love comfort, plain and simple.
All a woman has to do to is make a man feel comfortable and 99% of the time she has him.
I'll give you a good example of this female weapon that comes from one of the oldest books in the world, the Bible.
Anyone ever heard of the legendary strongman Samson?
You know, the guy that was the strongest man around and was able to slaughter an entire army all by himself.
How did Samson meet his downfall?
His enemies couldn't defeat him in battle so they sent a woman to destroy him.
She didn't use a sword, spear, bow and arrow, a knife, or any other weapon used in those days.
Instead, she used a woman's three classic weapons which are almost guaranteed to destroy a man: sex, ego, and comfort.
She f*cked him, stroked his ego (among stroking other things), and took care of him and made him feel comfortable.
Once she had him sufficiently weakened and stupid, she cut off his hair which was the source of his power.
Now completely weakened, his enemies rushed in and easily destroyed him.
This story is a perfect example of how women use their three master weapons to destroy a man, and a great man at that.
Since my mind is still on ancient times, let's quickly look at another example from antiquity.
Ever heard of a slick b*tch named Cleopatra, Queen of Egypt?
She was able to keep both her kingdom and her life by using these three female weapons against two of the most powerful men of her time, Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony.
Anyone familiar with history should know how this played out.
To quickly summarize, she f*cked Caesar, appealed to his already massive ego, and seduced him with the exotic comforts of Egypt.
This fool not only let her keep her kingdom and spared her life, but messed around and had a child with her and married her even though he already had a wife back in Rome.
Then later, after he was assasinated, she then ran the same exact game on the man who succeeded him, Mark Anthony.
History buffs know how this one turned out.
She abandoned him in the middle of the most important battle of his life against his greatest enemy, Octavian, and went back to Egypt and safety.
This fool was left defeated and broken and shortly after took his own life.
When Octavian marched triumphantly into Egypt, did he fall for the same bullsh*t?
Hell no!! He was smart.
He recognized her game like a true player, didn't listen to any of her bullsh*t, and imprisoned the b*tch.
I guess at this point she must have realized that she had finally run out of game because shortly after she took her own life rather than be brought back to Rome as a prisoner.
I didn't intend for this post to turn into a quick history lesson but then again there is another old saying, "Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it."
I'm sure if any of you look honestly at your own experiences and those of the guys around you, you will see how a woman used one or all of these weapons to gain an advantage.
A woman cancelled a date on you at the last minute?
That's a combination of weapons #1 and #2, using your sex drive against you (she wants you to be desperate and thirsty for her p*ssy) and also f*cking with your ego by making you wonder why she is cancelling the date when she seems to like you.
What about when a woman is married or otherwise attached but will string some other guy along and keep him as a "possible replacement or backup" because she is having problems with her current man.
This is usually a combination of weapons #1 and #3, sex appeal or the prospect of future sex and a man's need for comfort but sometimes weapon #2 (ego) can be used instead of #3 or a mix of all of them.
From now on, always be on the lookout for evidence of these three female weapons being used and you'll never again fall prey to the feminine charms of some beautiful but deadly seductress.
As the examples given above clearly show, men have lost everything from their strength, dignity, honor, respect, wealth, power, and yes, even their lives all because they fell victim to one or all of these time-honored, effective, manipulative, and highly destructive weapons used by women ever since Eve walked around that garden, butt naked, a$$ and tits out, asking Adam if he wanted to try some of her fruit.
I'm sure that apple wasn't the only fruit Adam thought about sampling.
POST IS CONTINUED BELOW
In the original post, I talked about the mentality necessary to be the man that the ladies want to pursue.
In part two, I introduced the King mentality to this forum and laid out exactly how to become a King and how a King should go about building and maintaining his kingdom (also known as his life, interests, and passions).
In part three, I will now give all Kings and Kings in training a detailed lesson on how to prevent a man's inherent weaknesses from destroying them while they are building or maintaining their kingdoms (lives).
This series of posts would not be complete if I didn't give any information on what a king should look out for and how protect himself and his kingdom (life).
It is not enough to just build your strengths, people who have wisdom are aware of their own weaknesses so that they can minimize them or protect themselves from those who would seek to exploit them.
First, recognize and understand the fact that everyone, male or female, has weaknesses that are just part of our nature.
Women, for example, have weaknesses that are a result of the powerful influence that estrogen and their emotions have over them.
So just what are a man's weaknesses and where do they come from?
Since the beginning of time, women have used their knowledge of a man's three greatest weaknesses to manipulate men and to control them.
All of the games and bullsh*t that a woman will try to play on you are based on their knowing just where to strike, like a skilled martial artist.
What are these three weaknesses that every man has and that women blatantly exploit?
They are:
1) A man's sex drive
2) A man's ego
3) A man's need for comfort
Every man alive has these three weaknesses and is the extent to which a woman is able to use them against you that determines how much of a mack or a sucker you are.
A true player or mack doesn't let a woman use these inherent male weaknesses to keep him under control or to use him.
A smart, experienced player is aware of these weaknesses and protects himself by not playing into these games.
A sucker, simp, AFC, nice guy, lame, punk a$$, square, pushover, etc. will allow a woman to play him using one or any of these three male weaknesses against him.
But just how does a woman go about using these weaknesses to their advantage?
Let's start with the greatest weakness of them all, a man's sex drive.
It is no secret that men are weak for p*ssy and just about every man has fallen prey to this weakness at one time or another.
The #1 weapon a woman has to manipulate a man is her sex appeal, and again, this one is a no-brainer and most men with any sense or experience with women learn this quickly.
It amazes me that even though the sex appeal weapon is so commonly used by women and men see it all the time, men still fall for this sh*t all the time.
The other two weapons, however, are a bit more sophisticated because they appeal to a man's psychological rather than sexual needs.
Here's where the games get much more complicated.
The #2 weapon a woman will use to control a man is manipulating his ego.
All men have an ego whether they think they do or not (actually all human beings have an ego).
But just how does a woman go about using this tool?
A woman will boost or challenge a man's ego depending on the kind of man she is dealing with.
It is very similar to the way that a great coach goes about motivating his players to perform well.
In sports, some players respond to a coach who is like a stern father yelling or screaming at them, pointing out their mistakes or shortcomings, and challenging their manhood or how much heart or machismo they have.
Then you have other players that need to be built up mentally or emotionally and respond better to a more supportive or nurturing approach.
They respond best to a coach who points out their strengths and praises them and encourages them to do even better or tells them that they believe in them.
Women use this same strategy of good cop or bad cop on men and they feel a man out to see which strategy will work best on him.
The #3 weapon is no less insidious and conniving as #2.
Women have long known that men are simple creatures who like to be made to feel comfortable.
What are some of the ways that they accomplish this?
One of the most well known ways is by acquiring culinary skills and capturing a man's heart by way of his stomach.
Ever heard of the old saying, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach".
I've had a few chicks use that bullsh*t on me to get me relaxed and comfortable and to let my guard down and once you let your guard down, it's like letting the barbarians through the gates.
Men love comfort, plain and simple.
All a woman has to do to is make a man feel comfortable and 99% of the time she has him.
I'll give you a good example of this female weapon that comes from one of the oldest books in the world, the Bible.
Anyone ever heard of the legendary strongman Samson?
You know, the guy that was the strongest man around and was able to slaughter an entire army all by himself.
How did Samson meet his downfall?
His enemies couldn't defeat him in battle so they sent a woman to destroy him.
She didn't use a sword, spear, bow and arrow, a knife, or any other weapon used in those days.
Instead, she used a woman's three classic weapons which are almost guaranteed to destroy a man: sex, ego, and comfort.
She f*cked him, stroked his ego (among stroking other things), and took care of him and made him feel comfortable.
Once she had him sufficiently weakened and stupid, she cut off his hair which was the source of his power.
Now completely weakened, his enemies rushed in and easily destroyed him.
This story is a perfect example of how women use their three master weapons to destroy a man, and a great man at that.
Since my mind is still on ancient times, let's quickly look at another example from antiquity.
Ever heard of a slick b*tch named Cleopatra, Queen of Egypt?
She was able to keep both her kingdom and her life by using these three female weapons against two of the most powerful men of her time, Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony.
Anyone familiar with history should know how this played out.
To quickly summarize, she f*cked Caesar, appealed to his already massive ego, and seduced him with the exotic comforts of Egypt.
This fool not only let her keep her kingdom and spared her life, but messed around and had a child with her and married her even though he already had a wife back in Rome.
Then later, after he was assasinated, she then ran the same exact game on the man who succeeded him, Mark Anthony.
History buffs know how this one turned out.
She abandoned him in the middle of the most important battle of his life against his greatest enemy, Octavian, and went back to Egypt and safety.
This fool was left defeated and broken and shortly after took his own life.
When Octavian marched triumphantly into Egypt, did he fall for the same bullsh*t?
Hell no!! He was smart.
He recognized her game like a true player, didn't listen to any of her bullsh*t, and imprisoned the b*tch.
I guess at this point she must have realized that she had finally run out of game because shortly after she took her own life rather than be brought back to Rome as a prisoner.
I didn't intend for this post to turn into a quick history lesson but then again there is another old saying, "Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it."
I'm sure if any of you look honestly at your own experiences and those of the guys around you, you will see how a woman used one or all of these weapons to gain an advantage.
A woman cancelled a date on you at the last minute?
That's a combination of weapons #1 and #2, using your sex drive against you (she wants you to be desperate and thirsty for her p*ssy) and also f*cking with your ego by making you wonder why she is cancelling the date when she seems to like you.
What about when a woman is married or otherwise attached but will string some other guy along and keep him as a "possible replacement or backup" because she is having problems with her current man.
This is usually a combination of weapons #1 and #3, sex appeal or the prospect of future sex and a man's need for comfort but sometimes weapon #2 (ego) can be used instead of #3 or a mix of all of them.
From now on, always be on the lookout for evidence of these three female weapons being used and you'll never again fall prey to the feminine charms of some beautiful but deadly seductress.
As the examples given above clearly show, men have lost everything from their strength, dignity, honor, respect, wealth, power, and yes, even their lives all because they fell victim to one or all of these time-honored, effective, manipulative, and highly destructive weapons used by women ever since Eve walked around that garden, butt naked, a$$ and tits out, asking Adam if he wanted to try some of her fruit.
I'm sure that apple wasn't the only fruit Adam thought about sampling.
POST IS CONTINUED BELOW