Alright Jokerisk,which you you want first,the good news or the bad news?
The good news is that you
started off well. Very well. You threw the neg out,and obviously it had an effect because of what she said to you later on. Also,I commend you on being willing to try something new instead of just doing the same thing over and over again.
Now the bad news.
YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE APOLOGIZED TO HER!!! When she spoke to you later on saying that some other guy doesn't call her a hand model,instead of apologizing,you should have threw in another neg right then and there on the spot!
I'm sure you've heard the word "congruent" floating around on this forum,right? Do you know what it means? It means to be the same through out. You can't start off acting and behaving one way,then later on switch to another way. AND THAT'S WHAT YOU DID!
You started off with the neg,then when you thought she was mad/offended,you switched your behavior,and became apologetic. Now she won't know which one is the real you,the one who negged her,or the nice,sweet,"I'm sorry" guy. You can't do that man.
Next time,when you throw out a neg,and the girl says something like,"I can't believe you said that",slam her again with another neg,but be careful. Don't go overboard with them.
Let me give you an example of something I said to a girl one time. This is how the conversation went:
me: Let me ask you a question. If I take you out,do I have to spend the whole date trying to be nice and be a gentleman,or what?
her: Well,since I just got out of a relationship,yes.
me: Alright,that's cool. I was just asking because some guys will take a woman out and start trying to hug her,and kiss her,and touch her like 5 minutes into the date,but I'm not like that through.
her: Oh,ok. That's good.
me: I mean,I usually wait like,I don't know, maybe 10,15 minutes.
her
started laughing bigtime!)
So yeah,you did ok,just next time DO NOT APOLOGIZE.