It all depends on who you are.
Too many guys fall into the trap of "being whipped.."
And being 25 and not married isn't a crime.
Being 35 and not married isn't a crime.
Being 45 and not married isn't a crime either.
But being 30 years old, single with three kids isn't gonna get you out of child support.
Its the whole life cycle.
Being 45 years old and going out partying all the time and having fun is great. But you aren't 25 years old anymore, no matter what you think or how great you look or feel. Its life.
Just as there are plenty of young kids regretting having kids too young, there are plenty of older people who regret not having kids or not having kids earlier.
Having a ten year old son or daughter by the time your 60 years old isn't something most people look forward to.
People start having kids and getting married around their late twenties and early thirties because it feels like the best time to do it.
Not too old and not too young.
There are plenty of miserable married people.
But there are also plenty of miserable single people.
Its all in who you are and how you feel.
Being 45 and pretending to be 22 isn't exactly what I'd call, "doing what you want to do."
But being 45 and living with a misearble wife and misearble kids isn't something out of a fantasy novel either.
Its all about perspective.
SOme people, male or female, always want to "hook" up their single friends. ITs not a bad thing, its just the way it is.
In many areas, people start having kids and they want their friends and family members to have kids around the same time so their kids can grow up together.
They share stories, they share horrors, they share grief, and they share joy.
Kids become the center piece of their life, good and bad.
And as u get older, you begin to realize most people who consistently brag about all these fabulous escapades and DJ Like ways, are usually more or less, exaggerating their own lives.
Yeah there are those who travel the world and date 20,000 women, but most people dont do that.
Hell, even the infamous Wilt Chamberlain admitted later in life that, it probably wasn't 20,000 women.
As u get older company picnics and company outings consist of 45 year old co-workers bringing family and children while the single guy brings his 25 year old gf.
Sad fact is, most 45 year old men aren't bringing a hot 25 year old gf. Thats the simple truth.
Too many people belive the hype and glory of tv and bs stories.
Not everybody is Donald Trump or Mark Cuban. Thats the simple truth. But read some stories or listen to some people and you'd assume that nobody struggles and nobody is poor. You'd assume everybody is related to Paris Hilton.
While some people do get married too young or too soon, there are very few people who regret having their children.
There are those that do, but married or single, those people are why many children wind up parentless.
It's all about perspective.
Don't get married to just get married.
But don't let something good go because some guy told you your stupid for thinking that.
