First, Happy New Year's! Here's hoping there were some good times.
My night was fun, but also left me with some good things to ponder going into 2011. I went to visit a friend of mine in our nearby city. In this group were also some people we knew from college. In the small group, there were two HB's (one HB7 and one HB8). HB8 used a lot of kino, but she is also BPD, so nothing really came from that. We all went to a club, and I ended up getting a kiss from the HB7 at midnight. She said she liked it, so, as any guy would do, I made an attempt to escalate, to which she said no. No big deal, it's not rare. About an hour later - after I had already left with a small group and was heading home - she calls me to, "hang out at a bar they were going to." I was already on the way home, so I didn't change course. To me, it wasn't worth it. Interesting though, how she says yes, then says no, then wants to go for it again. Maybe my game has improved as of late...getting into the heads of the prudes
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However, this was not the most interesting case of the night. I took the train home, where I ran into a couple people I went to high school with. In the group was a stunning HB9.5 I didn't really know back then, about 4-5 years ago. Though I was near the group as a whole, HB9.5 sat right by me for the trip. She was smiling, laughing, and seemed interested in our conversation, good deal. The only strange nugget was she randomly told me she had a date the following night, but seemed not-excited/eager/into it (didn't say it outright, but appeared down about it and rolled her eyes). I could have tried to do more, except for that she got a call from her friend right then who said she wouldn't pick her up from the train station. This led to a 30-minute back-and-forth within the call. So much for getting her number when my stop came. Fortunately, we are friends on Facebook. I don't really do Facebook game, but is there a way I can get things going and somehow manage to snag a date?
One of my New Year's resolutions, when it comes to social/girls stuff, is to be more aggressive and take more risks. It's better to burn out than fade away. At bars/parties, this has obvious meaning (more approaching). When it comes to Facebook or phone numbers, I plan on taking advantage of those resources.
My night was fun, but also left me with some good things to ponder going into 2011. I went to visit a friend of mine in our nearby city. In this group were also some people we knew from college. In the small group, there were two HB's (one HB7 and one HB8). HB8 used a lot of kino, but she is also BPD, so nothing really came from that. We all went to a club, and I ended up getting a kiss from the HB7 at midnight. She said she liked it, so, as any guy would do, I made an attempt to escalate, to which she said no. No big deal, it's not rare. About an hour later - after I had already left with a small group and was heading home - she calls me to, "hang out at a bar they were going to." I was already on the way home, so I didn't change course. To me, it wasn't worth it. Interesting though, how she says yes, then says no, then wants to go for it again. Maybe my game has improved as of late...getting into the heads of the prudes
.However, this was not the most interesting case of the night. I took the train home, where I ran into a couple people I went to high school with. In the group was a stunning HB9.5 I didn't really know back then, about 4-5 years ago. Though I was near the group as a whole, HB9.5 sat right by me for the trip. She was smiling, laughing, and seemed interested in our conversation, good deal. The only strange nugget was she randomly told me she had a date the following night, but seemed not-excited/eager/into it (didn't say it outright, but appeared down about it and rolled her eyes). I could have tried to do more, except for that she got a call from her friend right then who said she wouldn't pick her up from the train station. This led to a 30-minute back-and-forth within the call. So much for getting her number when my stop came. Fortunately, we are friends on Facebook. I don't really do Facebook game, but is there a way I can get things going and somehow manage to snag a date?
One of my New Year's resolutions, when it comes to social/girls stuff, is to be more aggressive and take more risks. It's better to burn out than fade away. At bars/parties, this has obvious meaning (more approaching). When it comes to Facebook or phone numbers, I plan on taking advantage of those resources.
