moneyisking
Master Don Juan
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as mentioned it's personal journal, so respond if you wana or ignore i don't care. this is just for those who wana see other's progress and more for me to just bring out what i think in my mind.
ok so it's been about over a week or two i seriously started self-development and game improvement again. this time I am using voice journal approach using my iPhone, recording some lessons learned, memorable things, what i did right, wrong.
currently my entire focus in game is mostly becoming challenge to women, making her qualify herself, c0cky&funny, and wit. I am not the best in it, but I do get noticeable responses from women that I probably wouldn't have gotten if i just stayed static and same.
for example, in order to be a challenge, i bust women's balls a lot in jokingly manner. if they tell me they haven't done their project, i would make her qualify herself by lightly saying "i don't think we can be group partners no more. i wana work with someone who does things on time" and she would hit my arm and we would laugh, and of course she'll qualify herself by saying she was busy blah blah.
another example, if i asked a chick where she buys water cheap, and she tells me she doesn't know the name of the place (probably cuz she really doesn't), I challenge her jokingly by saying "you don't wana tell me cuz you want the water all by yourself, i thought we were buddies" and she would qualify herself saying she really doesn't know and will find out to tell me.
Been getting lot of laughs and good time, so i do notice improvements which is a good thing. the only problem i find right now is that sometimes, I just can't get into that rhythm of being c0cky/funny or saying things to present challenge or qualifier. maybe those moments are when my subconscious feels less confident? i would like my confidence/light-hearted fun level to be more consistent throughout the day. sometimes i just have brilliant things to say to get girls laughing and blushing, and sometimes i can't think of anything, and i feel more confident and relaxed when I say those right things, so wish to find out solution to increase those incidences.
lastly, it's great to use challenging and qualifying because it makes women nervous (good nervous). I can literally see her kind of startled when I say throw a challenger or qualifier (unless they were for inducing laughter) because she usually never experience this from other guys, let alone from a stranger. of course there are times when i just don't well. i was pumping iron at gym and this girl took my spot while i was resting. i told her with a smile and playful tone "oh you enjoy stealing my machine don't you?" and she apologized, guess she didn't get it as a joke.
that was it. i doubt that someone would actually read the whole thing even though it is pretty bad a$$, but leave comment that can help me if you feel like.
ok so it's been about over a week or two i seriously started self-development and game improvement again. this time I am using voice journal approach using my iPhone, recording some lessons learned, memorable things, what i did right, wrong.
currently my entire focus in game is mostly becoming challenge to women, making her qualify herself, c0cky&funny, and wit. I am not the best in it, but I do get noticeable responses from women that I probably wouldn't have gotten if i just stayed static and same.
for example, in order to be a challenge, i bust women's balls a lot in jokingly manner. if they tell me they haven't done their project, i would make her qualify herself by lightly saying "i don't think we can be group partners no more. i wana work with someone who does things on time" and she would hit my arm and we would laugh, and of course she'll qualify herself by saying she was busy blah blah.
another example, if i asked a chick where she buys water cheap, and she tells me she doesn't know the name of the place (probably cuz she really doesn't), I challenge her jokingly by saying "you don't wana tell me cuz you want the water all by yourself, i thought we were buddies" and she would qualify herself saying she really doesn't know and will find out to tell me.
Been getting lot of laughs and good time, so i do notice improvements which is a good thing. the only problem i find right now is that sometimes, I just can't get into that rhythm of being c0cky/funny or saying things to present challenge or qualifier. maybe those moments are when my subconscious feels less confident? i would like my confidence/light-hearted fun level to be more consistent throughout the day. sometimes i just have brilliant things to say to get girls laughing and blushing, and sometimes i can't think of anything, and i feel more confident and relaxed when I say those right things, so wish to find out solution to increase those incidences.
lastly, it's great to use challenging and qualifying because it makes women nervous (good nervous). I can literally see her kind of startled when I say throw a challenger or qualifier (unless they were for inducing laughter) because she usually never experience this from other guys, let alone from a stranger. of course there are times when i just don't well. i was pumping iron at gym and this girl took my spot while i was resting. i told her with a smile and playful tone "oh you enjoy stealing my machine don't you?" and she apologized, guess she didn't get it as a joke.
that was it. i doubt that someone would actually read the whole thing even though it is pretty bad a$$, but leave comment that can help me if you feel like.
