md3sign
Senior Don Juan
This is something that has worked wonders for me lately. Any time I'm about to say something stupid, do something stupid, reply to a text, prepare to make a move, or take any action in life, women related or not, I VERY quickly ask myself - what would a real man say/do in this situation?
He would say less, and do more.
Learn to take a quick step back from everything you say and do (within reason of course - overanalyzing is just as bad as underanalyzing) and reframe it to another person. Imagine some other guy saying or doing the same thing. Would you respect him as a man? Would you admire him? Or would he seem like a chump?
Staying in little contact with a girl in-between dates allows you to think about these things and act accordingly.
Examples:
- Don't have text message conversations with girls. If she texts you, text her back. Keep it short and sweet and schedule a get together, then stop.
- If she calls you, same thing. 5 minutes, ask her about her day, schedule a get together and get off the phone.
- Don't be afraid to take the initiative to text a girl or call her, but do it to schedule a get together, not just to "talk".
Would a real man just want to talk with a girl? NO! That's what other girls are for. So keep it short and sweet and let her miss you. Show her through your actions you don't care for banal conversation. You want to see her, maybe go out and have some fun, but definitely sex her.
Try it!
He would say less, and do more.
Learn to take a quick step back from everything you say and do (within reason of course - overanalyzing is just as bad as underanalyzing) and reframe it to another person. Imagine some other guy saying or doing the same thing. Would you respect him as a man? Would you admire him? Or would he seem like a chump?
Staying in little contact with a girl in-between dates allows you to think about these things and act accordingly.
Examples:
- Don't have text message conversations with girls. If she texts you, text her back. Keep it short and sweet and schedule a get together, then stop.
- If she calls you, same thing. 5 minutes, ask her about her day, schedule a get together and get off the phone.
- Don't be afraid to take the initiative to text a girl or call her, but do it to schedule a get together, not just to "talk".
Would a real man just want to talk with a girl? NO! That's what other girls are for. So keep it short and sweet and let her miss you. Show her through your actions you don't care for banal conversation. You want to see her, maybe go out and have some fun, but definitely sex her.
Try it!