killbill said:
So I admit ive never had a girlfriend so anyways ive been seeing this hb8 she is very cool and we actually have alot in common. I met her through a friend of mine. We have been on so far five dates she is very awesome. Like I feel like we get along really good we basically like the same music which is really cool. so anyways I want to make her my girlfriend now,so do I need to tell her hey do you want to be my girlfriend or how does that work? please help me out. im sorry if this question is dumb its just I really dont know.
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killbill,
DO NOT verbalize your intent on the matter...
At no point will you bring up the subject. You will wait until SHE says something.
Youwill only show her your commitment and loyalty through ACTIONS.
You simply show her thorugh your actions.
Call her, talk to her, show her intimacy.
Ask her how her day was.
Make sure you are physically demonstrating your affection to her.
But don't go overboard with this "She's my GF now!!!"
5 dates is too early for young people, kill.
Take your time,
slow things down.
Enjoy the moments you have with her. You
can't do that if you're all anxious to get into her panties, and posses her.
You can't truly enjoy a woman's company if you're too inside your own head.
I know you're young, and are impatient and want her
now..but trust me..wait a little longer.
See if you can get HER to start bringing up the "talk'.