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Don Juan
This is the situation as it stands. The chick is in my P.E. weight training class, so anyway I have seen her around the campus a few other times, stopped and said hi to her and struck up a convo(she is always reading it seems), got her email(I said you seem cool, why dont you give me your number to hang out sometime) or something similar to that. She said email was better because her mother is really overprotective or w/e(I thought typical female BS so then i joked about it). Didnt really know what to say to that tbh and didnt want to come off pushy so i took the email. She said her mother actually told her not to make any friends when i joked about what? she doesnt want you to make friends? I think WTF? to myself.
Long story short, my grandfather died 2-3 days after that so my mind was elsewhere trying to get prepared and sorted out for those funeral services. And no I didnt tell her he died, im not that stupid. I actually lose her email(lmao) realize it last weekend so I tell her I need it again cause I lost it on Monday 3 days ago, she smiles and stays after class to give it to me again at the end. So my question is how would you guys advise to swing this? I actually saw her mother last week at school(she looks like an average middle aged white woman) while talking to her daughter and just smiled at her but didnt actually talk to her.
Now this girl smiles and laughs alot when I am talking to her and seems to have a very high interest level in me, tbh she is kinda nerdy but cute, I am not getting oneitis for her or super invested as I have other women I am interested in(and that like me). Also my buddy in that class says she looks at me fairly often(while I was looking at this Asian girl that I have teased in class ironically lmao) I also have seen her look at me now and then and she asked my help with something in class last week. How can I ratchet things up at this point and get the number/get further?(I see her in class 3 days a week but its difficult to talk much there when working out) Or am i just wasting my time? She seems shy and the mother thing is just weird as hell. Tips please? Apologies for writing so much. With regards to kino, it is difficult up here in the "icy northwest" so to speak so I havent done much of that, + ill be honest im not 100% comfortable touching people(but getting better).
Long story short, my grandfather died 2-3 days after that so my mind was elsewhere trying to get prepared and sorted out for those funeral services. And no I didnt tell her he died, im not that stupid. I actually lose her email(lmao) realize it last weekend so I tell her I need it again cause I lost it on Monday 3 days ago, she smiles and stays after class to give it to me again at the end. So my question is how would you guys advise to swing this? I actually saw her mother last week at school(she looks like an average middle aged white woman) while talking to her daughter and just smiled at her but didnt actually talk to her.
Now this girl smiles and laughs alot when I am talking to her and seems to have a very high interest level in me, tbh she is kinda nerdy but cute, I am not getting oneitis for her or super invested as I have other women I am interested in(and that like me). Also my buddy in that class says she looks at me fairly often(while I was looking at this Asian girl that I have teased in class ironically lmao) I also have seen her look at me now and then and she asked my help with something in class last week. How can I ratchet things up at this point and get the number/get further?(I see her in class 3 days a week but its difficult to talk much there when working out) Or am i just wasting my time? She seems shy and the mother thing is just weird as hell. Tips please? Apologies for writing so much. With regards to kino, it is difficult up here in the "icy northwest" so to speak so I havent done much of that, + ill be honest im not 100% comfortable touching people(but getting better).