alright here's my question. have any of you, being out-of-the-ordinary DJs, and not caving to a woman's every desire, encountered a girl that expects gentlemanly behavior...and you DENIED it? My gf right now seems to expect me to walk around my car and OPEN the door for her when we go anywhere. when i called her on it saying "what... is THAT what qualifies as a good boyfriend nowadays?" she kinda looked at me like "duh" and started to say something but went "ugh. nevermind" and opened the door and got in. this seems to me (and my limited understanding of one course worth of psychology) to be a bit of a power struggle. what is the correct way to deal with this sort of situation? i feel like it is necessary to establish that i control the frame and that she's not the one who makes the decision, but at what point do i draw a line and let chivalry and common courtesy take over and just open the damn door? 'preciate it folks.