I agree with Zekko as well.
It's not trying to sleep with a girl that's bad,it's acting and behaving needy and clingy
while you're trying to do it.
Have you ever seen someone hold a piece of food in the air just out of reach,and have a dog standing on it's hind legs trying to get it?
It's like the dog is hypotized or something. The person with the food in the air is in COMPLETE CONTROL over the dog's actions.
That's what you don't want to be like,because if you are and she senses that,you will have just knocked her attraction for you down a level.
Women like men who are strong and powerful. Someone stronger and more powerful than
them.
Well if everytime you're around her you lose all sense of yourself,and you start acting like man who's been in the desert for the past week with no water to drink,this needy,sex-starve attitude will turn her off.
It's like Zekko said,you don't say,"How are you today...so,if you're not too busy,would you like to have sex today?".
Plinco is also right.
909pua said:
hey i know what you guys mean, but some DJs in here are telling me not to even bring it up physically, like let them ask for it whether its verbally or physically.
I meant don't ask for it DIRECTLY.
You do like the forum teaches,you escalate. Flirting,then handholding,then hugging,then kissing,then touching,then etc,etc.
You go from A to B,then from B to C.
You're trying to skip all the way from A to Z. You can't do that.
If you try to go from A to Z everytime you see her,then she'll start to think ALL YOU WANT is sex from her,and she'll start to feel like a slvt.
She'll feel that way because you keep trying to go from "Hi." straight to the bedroom without taking the time to make her feel comfortable along the way.
909pua said:
i did this each time i saw her and got a "not tonight, some other time" response on a few occassions. i would kiss, touch, when it came time to unzip her pants, she said NO...not tonight...
Well if each time you see her you try to go from zero to sixty after you to being together for 5 minutes,of course she's going to give you resistance.
However,if you're doing everything right,and she still gives you these lines,that means you're doing something else wrong OUTSIDE OF THE BEDROOM.
There's something off or missing in the way you relate to her,something that has NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX.