Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Like someone else mentioned. Using a prostitute is no different than just masturbating. The other person is only there physically.....so is your hand. You're obviously only after a physical connection when you look for a hooker.....so why not save a lot of money and health risks and just masturbate?

If you think it makes you "cooler" because a girl is there physically, then you're right....if "cool" means losing out of a lot of money and finding little friends on your pen1s the next week.
There's something to be said about human contact. Most men that are involved in The Hobby know that the sex itself is most likely an act. However, many men choose to see escorts for more than just the sex. Human interaction cannot be had with a hand. Getting to know a new person and being with someone that in all actuality is way out of your league in terms of looks cannot be done with a hand.

Of course, some people are simply into it for the physical act (such as myself), but then there is still that human contact that is worth the price of admission--especially during those dry spells (and reputable escorts are very safe).

There is a whole subculture devoted to the escort business. There's certainly more to it than simple ejactulation.
 
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Every woman who is having sex outside of marriage is a prostitue!!! They are "hoing" and many/most are not even getting paid a dime!!! The man's downfall and error is when he devotes himself to her and "loves" the hor and/or makes her his wife.

There is nothing wrong with getting and keeping company with a "good" clean woman (virgin) - this is the only kind of girl that is NOT prostituting herself and the only kind that should be worth your time and devotion!!!!!!
 

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THANK YOU MRCODE for some sense on this post... you too rollo tomassi

okay delta, you do whatever you want... so when you get a real girlfriend and a real LTR, you won't really get jealous if she f.ucks another guy behind your back, right? maybe he gave her some money or something... and hey, all girls are prostitutes in one form or another, right?

jeez man...

i have been to both a prostitute and had an LTR

they don't compare... the sex is WAY better with an LTR...

and at the end of your life, on your deathbed, you're not going to worry about how many girls you f.ucked, you're going to worry about whether you had good relationships with people, including women who were special to ya.

chill with the ANTI-POOK thing... how bout you just be DELTA and try whatever works for YOU. :)
 

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i wonder what the BIASES of this board is.

is there some kind of secret affiliation with the promise keepers or something?

why - for a group of men for whom carnality with women occupy a lesser or greater portion of their mental life - is prostitution rejected so off-handedly?

as i said in another thread, the historical precedent and the role of prostitution in the lives of men (great and small) throughout history is no small thing.

if that really is so, don't you think you might be robbing yourselves of something that while perhaps not ideal may be beneficial in some way and you dismiss now simply because of the zeitgeist you happened to be born in?

especially for afcs who have no experience and for whom such even bought experiences may provide something concrete to build future successes on?

also, don't be so hypersensitive and be so threatened by ideas different than your own fellows.

ya come across as a bit weak.

delta

p.s. my 'anti-pooking' is not really a shot at pook. it's actually a shot at myself...

if pook represents the path to enlightenment and self-actualization (and as i have always said, he very may well), my ideas represent the shortcuts, the easier and... ummmm... shall we say... darker... path.

i'm 31 and really need to start wading through chicks like wolverine through ninjas of the hand to make up for lost time. morality and righteousness and shyt like that i just don't have the patience or time for i'm afraid.

PRAGMATICS is what it's all about for me. treat the symptom, not the motherfvcking ethereal source. and inasmuch as it CAN BE EFFECTIVE, i see no harm.

but delta i am, and delta i will be. surely, this way lies madness.

:)
 

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You probably have no truck with aesthetics, but I'm willing to wager a photo of you would be most enlightening.
 

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Anti-Pook? Delta isn't a worthy arch-enemy.

Good news for Delta: It seems that he's gone completely insane. When his old self has completely disintegrated, he can build himself a good personality upon the ashes.

I want Pook to respond myself.
 

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come on guys. we all have different perspectives, but a common goal -- success with women. so why don't we act like brothers, or at least cousins rather than ideological enemies.

if we all had the same solution, we wouldn't need one another would we? it's our differences that make us interesting. so let's tone down on the personal attacks please.
 

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eniken

I think almost everyone here is acting in accordance with brotherhood, the numbers have it. A DJ doesn't pay for women and really, why would anyone want to? I fukced a *****e once when I was studying at Duntroon, it was like an initiation thing. This chick was literally looking at her watch whilst going "uh, uh". I remember pulling out and throwing the condom at her face and saying "whatever the fukc you are on, get off it".

Later on all the blokes had pretty well the same thoughts. Yes, it was a right of passage, yes it was something we had now experienced, but NO...we would never do it again. Some of these blokes were virgins and THEY found it too clinical and mechanical.

If you plan on frequenting prostitutes, fine, but GET THE FUKC OUT of a site for men who wish to be DJ's. I will ask the obvious question again.

WHY IS HE HERE? WHAT DOES HE HOPE TO ACHIEVE?

I refuse to respond to the wankker, I only responded to you because you are yet to be beyond help.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Every woman who is having sex outside of marriage is a prostitue!!! They are "hoing" and many/most are not even getting paid a dime!!! The man's downfall and error is when he devotes himself to her and "loves" the hor and/or makes her his wife.

There is nothing wrong with getting and keeping company with a "good" clean woman (virgin) - this is the only kind of girl that is NOT prostituting herself and the only kind that should be worth your time and devotion!!!!!!
Well put!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Every woman who is having sex outside of marriage is a prostitue!!!
Actually a wife will charge you more for sex in the long term than any prostitute in name or behavior. And when you divorce you'll still be making payments for the sex you did have during marrige (it's called spousal support). It's like leasing a vagina.

But I'll repeat myself again: As a man you will ALWAYS pay for sex in some way, shape or form. Whether you're married, you're single or you go for 'professional help', there is always an exchange and always a tradeoff. How you negotiate it is up to you. Men want sex, women want security and the devil is in the details.

I can respect DELTA in the sense that he just wants to get from point A to point B in the most efficient, cost-effective way. I'm always the pragmatist myself, but there will come a point where quality will be more valuable than quantity. And that quality is weighed in a woman's genuine desire to hit it with you a hundred ways till tuesday. Will she be motivated by her security impulse? Absolutely, but at least you'll know she's into it and money doesn't buy that.

DELTA, it sounds to me from this thread and the others you've started, that you're 31 and feel the need to make up for lost time. I don't know your personal situation, but by all means, do go out and get after the quantity and variety you're seeking. There's nothing wrong with that, that's part of the process. Be careful in your doing this, be responsible to yourself, but go to it. But as a warning, don't fall into the common traps that come with doing so. Pook's advice will be lost on you until you do hit it with 50 more women and can say, "Yes, I am after quality now", and hopefully by then you'll see the best way to get from point A to point B in getting that quality woman.
 

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Why do people on here still insist that you ALWAYS have to pay for sex? Sure marriage I cant argue, haven't been there. Sure I've paid for probably like half the sex I've had during courtship and what not but the other half cost me nothing. You can argue time but hell if I get a girl to come over and watch monday night football with me then bend her over I haven't spent any time that I wouldn't have spent otherwise.
 

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Originally posted by Delta

but delta i am, and delta i will be. surely, this way lies madness.

:)
hahaha that is a great quote

i'm not saying prostitution is something that shouldn't be in your life.... if you want it go for it. but i assume guys are on here to learn how to PICK UP women, and basically f.uck them for free...

prostitutes require no game. just money... f.uck all the prostitutes you want, but they don't belong in future Field Reports

i'm just saying if you want a warm, wet, willing woman beside you when you wake up... learning to be a DJ is better for that... until then, blow all your money on prostitutes...

OR pay a really good wing to hook you up with some fine a.ss chicks (you'll probably pay him even LESS, and still get the p.ussy while learning DJ skills)
 

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by the way, i am stealing your quote as my new personal saying, with the "delta" changed of course....

in a few weeks, i'll tell everyone that it was ME who came up with that genius bit... BWAHAHHHAA (evil laugh)
 

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Originally posted by Delta
PRAGMATICS is what it's all about for me. treat the symptom, not the motherfvcking ethereal source. and inasmuch as it CAN BE EFFECTIVE, i see no harm.
w3rd again.

Let's learn and teach the fastest way to get from A to B. Regardless of it's 'PC'ness. That's what I'm all about...

I read up on girl's Birthsign before I go out on a date with her... I ask her about her father to see how she 'typically' interacts with men. I ask her about how she met her ex bf to get an idea as to what turns her on in a man...

Personally, I bang alot of girls with low self esteems. The high self esteem girls typically need a few dates before they'll bang you.. Unless you're some super-hot dude... Even then, they want a relationship afterwards (at least in my experiences).

Cheers!

Eric
 

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Re: eniken

Originally posted by Sart
I think almost everyone here is acting in accordance with brotherhood, the numbers have it. A DJ doesn't pay for women and really, why would anyone want to? I fukced a *****e once when I was studying at Duntroon, it was like an initiation thing. This chick was literally looking at her watch whilst going "uh, uh". I remember pulling out and throwing the condom at her face and saying "whatever the fukc you are on, get off it".

Later on all the blokes had pretty well the same thoughts. Yes, it was a right of passage, yes it was something we had now experienced, but NO...we would never do it again. Some of these blokes were virgins and THEY found it too clinical and mechanical.

If you plan on frequenting prostitutes, fine, but GET THE FUKC OUT of a site for men who wish to be DJ's. I will ask the obvious question again.

WHY IS HE HERE? WHAT DOES HE HOPE TO ACHIEVE?

I refuse to respond to the wankker, I only responded to you because you are yet to be beyond help.

whoa, you need to chill bro

u may disagree with the man's idea, but you can't insult him. just basic rules of respect.

i can predict that with that attitude u will not become a good DJ either
 

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if you are rich, get two beautiful escorts to go out with you in public every weekend, one on each arm. soon enough all the girls will be after you.
 
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