Hello,
Im having problems with my girl. We are together 3 months now, i see her 2 times per week, and everytime sex is involved and its great.
She is a jealous girl. She doesnt like me going to clubs each friday and saturday. I cut it cause i really like her, so I go 1 per week which aint that bad. She stills insists of going once a month. I do not want to get her in control but if i dont obey her she will make sad noises and wants to close the phone, angrily.
But the problem isnt with clubs, the problem is PAST RELATIONSHIPS. She had a serious relationship a year ago, with a guy she always mentions he's name and how GOD-looking guy he is. It quite pisses me off since she is soo jealous girl when i tell her about mine past relationships and always accuses me of loving them still and bull**** like that. I feel unfairness.
She is a body and face 9/10. And she gets alot of attention that she doenst hesitate to tell me about it. I got not much problem with that , i want a pretty girl but not an attention *****, which sometimes a suspect she is. She likes wearing sexy clothes and stuff like that. I always try not to bother me seeing other dudes checking her out ( and looking at them while im with her).
All above problems occur on daily basis. Her jealousnes and unfairness pisses me , i feel she does more than i do and i get the blame.
She has a best friend, lets call her Anne. Anne is such a *****, she has a serious relationship with a good guy, and she goes looking for guys here and there. The problem is I dont like girls like that, disrespecting her boyfriend and send txt to any guy Anne meets. I called her a ***** of doing such bull**** after hearing by my girl that Anne went with another guy. And my girl told her. Now I have Anne not liking me (as if a give a rat's ass ), but she influences my girl. She tells me that Anne REALLY REALLY liked the GOD-looking guy my girl went with and the other guy my girl only went before me, giving me the impression i dont get into Anne's Impression list.
Thing is i dont bother with Anne, but when Anne wants to go meet some guys in some other city, she brings my girl, to check some guys out and maybe make out ( Anne, not my gf). It's just that I dont find it cool.
I feel insecure with this relationship, always assuring that my gf had an awesomely good looking guy a year ago, brings me abit down.. dont know why. She tells me and I tell her "look , i dont really care" and she alright with it, but hte damage is done. It's not like i feel insecure about my looks, Hell, im a pretty good looking guy, but thing is she mentions it alot and she tells me she loved him. And so and so.
The past days I've told her 2 times to brake up because I cant take it anymore. I know 100% that she loves me , but she has alot of other crap in her head. Like yersterday monday, she left school with Anne to go to some city and talk to a girl they wanted. They accidentaly find some guys downtown. One guy saw her and smiled , she smiled also and then when the guys where going to leave , her friend Anne shouted " Hey you guys, where are you goin?" and so the conversation started. My girl told me that they where v. flirty with her , but she didnt buy anything cos she never gonna do anything cos she loves me and wants to be with me.
Whenever I try to brake it off she goes insanely crazy shouting how much she loves me and she wants me. I've tried to change her character abit, and she does change, when she says something she does, but thing is this that she has and i have a problem with it never changes. It's in her blood to make me jealous and make me feel pissed.
What I specifically dont like about her is that i suspect she shows other guys availability (showing to the other unknown guys that she is available for approach , i hate that ) which she never says. We went to the extremes today that I told her she shouldnt smiled back and she says I always smile. I told her never blame me for my past relationships, like i still love Julia (one particular ex), but she says she wont stop because she worries.
Sorry for the long post, I just dont know what to do with this relationship. It's just that its sad because in EVERYTHING ELSE we go soo awesomely great together, we do love each other.
But i dont know how to face this problem, which it may even be my problem or her problem. Whomever it is , i have to face it one way or another.
Any comments/Suggestions?
Im having problems with my girl. We are together 3 months now, i see her 2 times per week, and everytime sex is involved and its great.
She is a jealous girl. She doesnt like me going to clubs each friday and saturday. I cut it cause i really like her, so I go 1 per week which aint that bad. She stills insists of going once a month. I do not want to get her in control but if i dont obey her she will make sad noises and wants to close the phone, angrily.
But the problem isnt with clubs, the problem is PAST RELATIONSHIPS. She had a serious relationship a year ago, with a guy she always mentions he's name and how GOD-looking guy he is. It quite pisses me off since she is soo jealous girl when i tell her about mine past relationships and always accuses me of loving them still and bull**** like that. I feel unfairness.
She is a body and face 9/10. And she gets alot of attention that she doenst hesitate to tell me about it. I got not much problem with that , i want a pretty girl but not an attention *****, which sometimes a suspect she is. She likes wearing sexy clothes and stuff like that. I always try not to bother me seeing other dudes checking her out ( and looking at them while im with her).
All above problems occur on daily basis. Her jealousnes and unfairness pisses me , i feel she does more than i do and i get the blame.
She has a best friend, lets call her Anne. Anne is such a *****, she has a serious relationship with a good guy, and she goes looking for guys here and there. The problem is I dont like girls like that, disrespecting her boyfriend and send txt to any guy Anne meets. I called her a ***** of doing such bull**** after hearing by my girl that Anne went with another guy. And my girl told her. Now I have Anne not liking me (as if a give a rat's ass ), but she influences my girl. She tells me that Anne REALLY REALLY liked the GOD-looking guy my girl went with and the other guy my girl only went before me, giving me the impression i dont get into Anne's Impression list.
Thing is i dont bother with Anne, but when Anne wants to go meet some guys in some other city, she brings my girl, to check some guys out and maybe make out ( Anne, not my gf). It's just that I dont find it cool.
I feel insecure with this relationship, always assuring that my gf had an awesomely good looking guy a year ago, brings me abit down.. dont know why. She tells me and I tell her "look , i dont really care" and she alright with it, but hte damage is done. It's not like i feel insecure about my looks, Hell, im a pretty good looking guy, but thing is she mentions it alot and she tells me she loved him. And so and so.
The past days I've told her 2 times to brake up because I cant take it anymore. I know 100% that she loves me , but she has alot of other crap in her head. Like yersterday monday, she left school with Anne to go to some city and talk to a girl they wanted. They accidentaly find some guys downtown. One guy saw her and smiled , she smiled also and then when the guys where going to leave , her friend Anne shouted " Hey you guys, where are you goin?" and so the conversation started. My girl told me that they where v. flirty with her , but she didnt buy anything cos she never gonna do anything cos she loves me and wants to be with me.
Whenever I try to brake it off she goes insanely crazy shouting how much she loves me and she wants me. I've tried to change her character abit, and she does change, when she says something she does, but thing is this that she has and i have a problem with it never changes. It's in her blood to make me jealous and make me feel pissed.
What I specifically dont like about her is that i suspect she shows other guys availability (showing to the other unknown guys that she is available for approach , i hate that ) which she never says. We went to the extremes today that I told her she shouldnt smiled back and she says I always smile. I told her never blame me for my past relationships, like i still love Julia (one particular ex), but she says she wont stop because she worries.
Sorry for the long post, I just dont know what to do with this relationship. It's just that its sad because in EVERYTHING ELSE we go soo awesomely great together, we do love each other.
But i dont know how to face this problem, which it may even be my problem or her problem. Whomever it is , i have to face it one way or another.
Any comments/Suggestions?