I've been doing something a little different for me at work lately...
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I've been pretending to be happy. The reason I did this is because I got the idea that if people didn't see my negative emotions, I might be able to go farther. Well actually, it seems to be working. In a way, it's similar to what you have to do when you meet a woman and act confident and relaxed.
Normally, I'm an "authentic" kind of guy, so if I'm happy, I let you know, If I'm not so happy, you'll know too. But here's a weird thing about all this: I actually start to feel happy for real.I didn't expect that.
It almost makes me think that if I pretended to be happy in my private life I'd get similar results. "All right! I get to do the laundry! Woohoo! I'm going to go through my bills!!!" And yet.., it may work.
What do you think?
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I've been pretending to be happy. The reason I did this is because I got the idea that if people didn't see my negative emotions, I might be able to go farther. Well actually, it seems to be working. In a way, it's similar to what you have to do when you meet a woman and act confident and relaxed.
Normally, I'm an "authentic" kind of guy, so if I'm happy, I let you know, If I'm not so happy, you'll know too. But here's a weird thing about all this: I actually start to feel happy for real.I didn't expect that.
It almost makes me think that if I pretended to be happy in my private life I'd get similar results. "All right! I get to do the laundry! Woohoo! I'm going to go through my bills!!!" And yet.., it may work.
What do you think?