Because I have to fight Cali rush hour traffic before and after work I get a lot of time to think, and I was just contemplating this the other day..
I don't mind sleeping with a girl I'm not dating but attracted to. Here is my thought process if I knock her up (slight chance with all the contraception today but still happens) could I see myself being okay having her being a part of my life for the rest of it? Would my child not be as adorable to me because I wasn't attracted to her mom?
This is why I don't settle and sleep with any girl just for a quick satisfaction that won't do anything a week from now anyway. Is anyone else like this?
The way I see it, if I'm attracted to her then the girl must have good genes and a healthy lifestyle. I've only became fwb with a girl i wasn't attracted too once and I felt disgusted afterword. There was really no satisfaction. This was in my earlier 20's and I think now, as I thought then, if I had a child with this girl.. I'd be sick to my stomach. She wasn't hideous.. probably like a 6.
The other thing I was thinking about is this: Women have the upper hand in this category. If they get knocked up it's their choice to have an abortion or not. So they can easily negate the whole child thing if they wanted to. Us guys can't. Which is a scary thought. But do you think having more control over abortion makes them more promiscuous than guys?
I don't mind sleeping with a girl I'm not dating but attracted to. Here is my thought process if I knock her up (slight chance with all the contraception today but still happens) could I see myself being okay having her being a part of my life for the rest of it? Would my child not be as adorable to me because I wasn't attracted to her mom?
This is why I don't settle and sleep with any girl just for a quick satisfaction that won't do anything a week from now anyway. Is anyone else like this?
The way I see it, if I'm attracted to her then the girl must have good genes and a healthy lifestyle. I've only became fwb with a girl i wasn't attracted too once and I felt disgusted afterword. There was really no satisfaction. This was in my earlier 20's and I think now, as I thought then, if I had a child with this girl.. I'd be sick to my stomach. She wasn't hideous.. probably like a 6.
The other thing I was thinking about is this: Women have the upper hand in this category. If they get knocked up it's their choice to have an abortion or not. So they can easily negate the whole child thing if they wanted to. Us guys can't. Which is a scary thought. But do you think having more control over abortion makes them more promiscuous than guys?