viking22 said:
I'll definitely ask for a DNA test at some stage.
She is 21 years old, according to her she has regular periods never more than a few days off, she has had a stressful time at school but nothing extreme.
I think she won't get the test because she is convinced she is pregnant and doesn't see the point. She alludes to other signs and says she cannot think of any other reason why she would be eight days late.
She seems very worried which is why she goes on about how I must marry her because she thinks her religious parents will reject her if they understood she had a child out of wedlock. She says after three weeks we can divorce and promises she will not ask for any money in the divorce. I said there is no way I am marrying her, and if she wants to keep the baby she must deal with the consequences.
She is quite clear that she does not want to abort, saying it is a sin and she is not a murderer.
In the next sentence she alludes to suicide.
Then she asks me for help with her homework.
It is all quite strange. I keep insisting we go to a doctor together but she says "Next week, I have exams this week and I must study".
There is a slim possibility she is making this all up. The last month or so our relationship has been pretty unstable and I think she realises I am losing interest.
According to her we are broken up and since Im not being supportive and agreeing to marry her, she is going to go to the doctor when it suits her and refuses to meet to talk things over.
I really do not know what to do.
you are a MAN - use some logic here:
She is not being congruent at all, because someone who values religion as much as she says she does, would not have pre-marital sex in the first place!!
The "god" that would not forgive her for having an abortion is the same "god" that would not forgive her for having sex with someone who is not her husband.
Listen to this advice very carefully:
GO FOR THE HAIL MARY (brought to you by Tom Leykis) -
tell her how much you love her and how you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Tell her that you see a great future with her, with a great family and a nice house and all of the good things life has to offer. But, tell her that right now is not the right time for it, as neither of you are ready for a baby..........but in the next couple of years or so, you would love to marry her and have a family with her, in fact, you DREAM of that perfect day.
If she is pregnant, this is exactly what you tell her to get her to have an abortion. If she agrees to the abortion, then you will know FOR A FACT that she was using this pregnancy just to trap you into being with her and committing to her, because after all, why would she agree to an abortion only AFTER you tell her how much you love her and wanna be with her?? WHAT ABOUT THOSE RELIGIOUS BELIEFS???
If she agrees to the abortion, you take her to the clinic in the morning, you PAY for the abortion (i dont care if she cheated on you or not, i dont care if the baby is yours or not, you still pay just to get this b1tch to delete this accident)..........after she has the abortion, take her to McDonald's for an Egg McMuffin (or her favorite breakfast sandwich).......then take her home, lay her on the bed and tell her you love her, and when she says she loves you too, you tell her "I never want to hear from you again, I am done with you *****", and leave.
Don't stay with a cvnt who decided to get pregnant to trap you.
Period. End of Story.
