****y/Funny is more of a mindset that should be a part of your natural personality as a man. Many of us just lose that part of ourselves due to social conditioning. We become "nice guys" and AFCs, and lose that part of ourselves because we're afraid of offending anyone.
I'm not a big fan of using neg hits unless they come naturally with being C & F. In my opinion, if you try too hard to focus on neg hits, you'll come off as fake, or insulting. You don't want to come off as an a$$hole, because she'll see right through the act, eventually. Unless you're naturally an a$$hole, in which case you wouldn't be on this site, because for whatever reason a$$holes have more women than they know what to do with.
Again neg hits are fine as long as they come naturally with part of your C& F personality. But, DON' T try too hard with them, or you'll come across as very offensive.
David D'Angelo gives a nice idea of this. He says use a compliment with C & F. Like, "Nice shirt". She'll say, "thanks." Then you say, "Did you buy that new?" And don't laugh when you say it. And no big cheesy grins. Just a half smile to let her know you "get it".
Watch Hugh Jackman in the movie Someone Like You At one point he says to Ashley Judd, "Hey Jane, Do you want me to get them to turn up the AC in here? You're looking a little flushed?" Then he gives her a grin. Watch the movie and you'll get what I'm talking about. I know it's a chick flick, but it's good to watch for DJ purposes.
Speaking of Hugh Jackman, he's one star that does C & F in a few characters that he plays. So does my namesake Clint Eastwood. Watch Harrison Ford as Han Solo or Indiana Jones. I gave a big list of movies and stars to emulate in another post.
The point is that ****iness is important. It should be the way you are as a man. But many people confuse ****iness with arrogance. They are not the same thing. Many women on this site hear about ****y and say that they hate guys with this attitude because they're arrogant. But, that's because most guys don't understand ****y and arrogant.
Arrogance is annoying and a hateable trait. It's an uptight, stuffed-shirt, pompous, I'm better than everyone else attitude. Of course it's a turn-off.
****iness, on the other hand, is a mild over-confidence. I'm very ****y myself, but in an attractive way. I've gotten a lot of compliments lately about what a great personality I have. ****iness is magnetic, charismatic. Watch some of the stars I talked about in certain movie roles. Their characters are likeable and funny in a way because they're just a bit too confident. We like people like this. We're drawn to them. It's ****iness that makes a man a man. It's what causes guys to be a bit of a trouble maker. It's what makes guys take risks, and do whacky adventurous things. Because, we're just a bit too confident. That's what ****y is.
And of course, if you add humor to this attitude, it makes it a magical combination. Humor has always been easy for me. I was always a class clown and had no problem getting people laughing. I seem to have ****y & funny down really well, but there are other areas I need to work on in order to be the DJ I'm striving to become. Sure C& F will break the ice. It will even get you laid and get a girl to fall for you initially. But, as I said before, it's just a small part of the overall formula.
****y & Funny is great because it shows your sexually playful side. It's flirting at it's best. It makes the interaction fun for you and her if you do it right. That's why I didn't focus on the neg hit idea. Too many of you are talking about neg hits. ****y & Funny is playful flirting . That's right flirting, that sexual language of human courtship. It should make it a fun game between you and her.
It's a great thing to focus on if you're not good at flirting. The idea is to show your sexuality, mild over-confidence, and sense of humor. But, you have to have the mindset to pull it off. If it's not natural to you. Just practice. Don't worry too much that the first several times you may come across as fake. In time you'll realize it's a natural part of your personality, and you'll always be C & F with everyone. Then things will be more fun for you and them. That's why I advised not focusing too much on the neg hits. If you focus too much on the neg hits, and you're not that kind of guy, you'll come across as an a$$hole. You don't want that. C & F is good. A$$hole is not.
Sure it's good to add in a few comments that bust on her, but keep it in the context of C& F. That makes you more challenging and shows that you're not going to kiss her butt just to get some attention or pu$$y. But, that's a whole other post.
, i think we should have a killer thread with ****y/funny statements pertaining to certain situations. A little reference thread to show how ****y/funny could be used. 
