Post: #1 Foreign Students from Asia – How Do I Game Them?

spinaroonie

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So I signed for an English tutoring program at my alma mater. Each tutor is assigned to an ESL student. The tutor meets with the student for an hour a week engaging them verybally so they gain fluency in conversational English.

I signed up for this to meet some cute foreign girls from the local college. I got set up with a 23 year old Chinese grad student in math. I met with her at a coffee shop on campus for our first session. Cute, but nothing to write home about. I spoke with her about my line of work (we're in the same field), my experience as an undergrad at the university, travel stories and even about past relationships (including a hot Chinese girl I dated in the past) - all under the guise of learning English.

She told me a bit about her. She plans to stay here long term. She had a boyfriend in China for about 6 months whom she split with before moving here for grad school about a year ago. AFAIK no bf since. I teased that a sweet, smart, cute girl like her shouldn’t be hurting for male attention. She giggled as all foreign Chinese girls do. I casually remarked that I preferred foreign girls for their femininity.

The session only should have lasted an hour but we sat down for two. She seemed enthralled with what I had to say through our whole session, even taking notes of the idioms I taught her. Her English was passable - strong accent but good enough to carry a conversation. I teased that she didn't really need me but she was adamant about gaining fluency in English. This is a girl that prided herself in being "not like the rest", someone who didn’t just want to hang out with other FOBs but wanted to integrate into mainstream society. I respected that.

I walked away thinking I had some good rapport going with this girl. She likely views me as a high-value guy and may even be attracted to me. As I flipped through some travel pics on my iPhone to show her, I happened upon some beach photos and she yelped “nice body!” as only a naïve nerdy FOB chick would say.

This is a girl I wouldn't date long term nor a girl I’d be too proud to hold hands in public with. However, despite the nerdiness she’s petite and trim and there's the allure of throwing her around in bed, making her scream and cry with my big local-boy dong and sampling some tight exotic poontang. Of course, she benefits by getting to spend more time with a guy that can teach her English and access to a social circle she normally wouldn’t get into.

I've never bedded a foreign girl from China before. Are these girls closet freaks who’re down for flings and NSA sex or do I need to play boyfriend and wait 3 months for a peck? How do I plow through her nerdy asexuality? If I play my cards right I think I can bag this. How do I play this one?

I'll be seeing her again for two more sessions next week. I have other local girls I’m plowing but I want to add this one to the bullpen.
 

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If she is a FOB then she is looking to hookup with a foreigner...

Need no game for this bro. Simply ask her when she wants to hang out with you again.

Depending on what kind of family she's from then she is either looking at getting married with house, car and kid.... or looking to fvck you and make you her boyfriend (to eventually marry). If you are just looking for a notch on your bed post, go elsewhere. These girls are better than that.

Escalate for a week or two... if she fvcks you first or second day then she is a party girl (rich)... if she takes a week or two, she is likely a traditional girl and eventually she'll give in and let you do whatever you want. The caveat is that once you do, she's gonna want you to stay and marry her. Rich/Poor the culture is the same here... find a boyfriend, marry, have a kid.

More than likely she is rich beyond anything you can possibly imagine. The poor ones never leave China. You are a HUGE status upgrade for her and free english lessons to boot. (Here it costs between 15 to 30 bucks an hour for an english lesson... which to the average person in China is equivalent to 150 dollars per hour)... trust me, you don't need game for this one, she is sizing you up already.

Invite her out, show her your place, then take her home, kiss her and take her clothes off.... easy. Don't be surprised if she's never kissed/ had sex before.

If you are just out for a fling go back to your western hos.

23 y/o in China is OLD... meaning in two more years she will be regarded as a 'left over' and won't be able to get married/find a boyfriend. Make no mistake, she is playing for keeps.

someone who didn’t just want to hang out with other FOBs but wanted to integrate into mainstream society. I respected that.
LOL, whatever, China will be mainstream society soon. You'd best learn Chinese.
 

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Met with her last Tuesday - our third "tutoring" session. I ran Strawberry Fields and The Cube on her. She was all over it like a fat kid on cake - girls love this stuff.
 
Funny, after I ran The Cube I asked her "what do you think the cube represents." And she says "SEX?" lol

I think this girl could be DTF. Unlike most FOB types she doesn't seem too squeamish about sex. Also you just scored with a girl with a foreign accent and a "nice girl" exterior, so I know to not be fooled by innocent appearances.
 
I'm thinking we'll stay on-campus one last time, then take it to an off-campus coffee shop for a change of scenery the following week, and do drinks at a lounge on a weekend night, back to my place for a "movie" and take it from there.

Just wondering if and how likely they are to put out. These girls put on a studious nice girl from but I'm sure there's something alluring about sex with an attractive "local boy" so long as they can save face and nobody finds out. The fact that we're not in the same social circle/no mutual friends yet we've developed a rapport from seeing each other once a week over a month helps.

And I've been consciously steering our tutoring conversations to sex & relationships-related matters (differences in China vs. the West). I've told her about my dating exploits and she knows the type of guy I am. Would these girls be down for NSA sex, or is the tug of culture too much for these girls to succumb to temptation and lust (even if abetted by alcohol)?
 

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Good job, all I an say is ramp up the pace. She's obviously gagging for it, escalate escalate escalate. Get her off campus next meeting, the following meeting should end up at hers or yours. Don't leave it too long. You know these foreign students go out and get drunk, it will only be a matter of time before she gets laid.
 
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