HuangBei
Don Juan
Okay guys, I ask your advice on something:
What I need some help on is playfulness. Now let me give you some context first so you can understand.
Today I met this hot mamma (not literally a mom) named Erika. She's full blood Mexican and the moment I saw her I was blown away, at first. She practically intimidated me (this may have been because she's 4 years older than me, heh, and doesn't know my age). This made me want to approach her even MORE! So I did, met her, did the palm thing (and I'll note I was still a bit nervous), and even got her number, but I don't think I got the level of attraction going in her that I wanted.
I think this is because...PLAYFULNESS. She let it be known, in subtle ways, that she's wild and a part girl. My chill attitude was cool, but I think if I had played around with her I would have sparked a much greater liking. How do I know this? I have these Japanese beads that I usually get asked to show. I decided I'd ask her if she'd seen them before. I did, and she said yes and tried to take them but I pulled them away. It was a subtle challenge. She acted whiny but actually laughed about it and I knew this was a good response. I went ahead and let her see them, but I have a feeling if I had kept finding ways to be playful like this, I would have had a LOT stronger rapport.
In the end she seemed no more than interested, but not really turned on. What would you all suggest I do to become more playful?
What I need some help on is playfulness. Now let me give you some context first so you can understand.
Today I met this hot mamma (not literally a mom) named Erika. She's full blood Mexican and the moment I saw her I was blown away, at first. She practically intimidated me (this may have been because she's 4 years older than me, heh, and doesn't know my age). This made me want to approach her even MORE! So I did, met her, did the palm thing (and I'll note I was still a bit nervous), and even got her number, but I don't think I got the level of attraction going in her that I wanted.
I think this is because...PLAYFULNESS. She let it be known, in subtle ways, that she's wild and a part girl. My chill attitude was cool, but I think if I had played around with her I would have sparked a much greater liking. How do I know this? I have these Japanese beads that I usually get asked to show. I decided I'd ask her if she'd seen them before. I did, and she said yes and tried to take them but I pulled them away. It was a subtle challenge. She acted whiny but actually laughed about it and I knew this was a good response. I went ahead and let her see them, but I have a feeling if I had kept finding ways to be playful like this, I would have had a LOT stronger rapport.
In the end she seemed no more than interested, but not really turned on. What would you all suggest I do to become more playful?