Hey gents,
Haven't been here for a while, hope you're all doing well.
I've been seeing this HB7 for the past month, and things are progressing well. Good chemistry, no AFC behavior on my part, and she seems to have some good longer term potential.
Recently, she has been mentioning a male co-worker quite often. She usually mentions him when talking about her work day, and it's always in very neutral terms. The only remark she made that caught my attention and clued me in that there might be something more was "he is uplifting", meaning that he's positive and encouraging when she's frustrated.
I know from experience that hearing other dudes mentioned is a sign of cheating/hypergamous behavior waiting to happen, or that princess is in another castle.
I played it cool, and showed no jealousy, but I am finding myself withdrawing from her as I trust my gut.
I'd like your thoughts on handling plates who mention other men. Asking about this guy isn't an option, and neither is showing jealousy. Should I withdraw and fade out? If I do ask her about it, she'll talk her way around it as any woman would. She'd also likely be repulsed by this AFC move.
What would SoSuave do?
Thanks.
Haven't been here for a while, hope you're all doing well.
I've been seeing this HB7 for the past month, and things are progressing well. Good chemistry, no AFC behavior on my part, and she seems to have some good longer term potential.
Recently, she has been mentioning a male co-worker quite often. She usually mentions him when talking about her work day, and it's always in very neutral terms. The only remark she made that caught my attention and clued me in that there might be something more was "he is uplifting", meaning that he's positive and encouraging when she's frustrated.
I know from experience that hearing other dudes mentioned is a sign of cheating/hypergamous behavior waiting to happen, or that princess is in another castle.
I played it cool, and showed no jealousy, but I am finding myself withdrawing from her as I trust my gut.
I'd like your thoughts on handling plates who mention other men. Asking about this guy isn't an option, and neither is showing jealousy. Should I withdraw and fade out? If I do ask her about it, she'll talk her way around it as any woman would. She'd also likely be repulsed by this AFC move.
What would SoSuave do?
Thanks.