Awesome article!
I think much of Mystery's success comes from his 'in person' energy. His "IT" factor. There is something about him beyond what he says that makes him very charming and successful with women.
This info is fcuking amazing:
"Cornell associate professor of human development Cynthia Hazan thinks the Method works on a deeper level than even Mystery knows. First of all, she says, “you knock [the woman] off balance” with the neg, so throughout the next phases “her judgment is impaired. She becomes focused on getting his attention and approval and getting back into the group.” From the point of view of evolutionary psychology, she adds, “it's really anxiety-provoking, and humans have a built-in aspect where when we're anxious we want to get closer to other people.”
The act of negging an attractive woman can even tamper with her brain chemistry, says Helen Fisher, the author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. “When you fall in love with somebody, what's going on in the brain is an elevated activity of dopamine,” the main arousal chemical, and “the system that motivates you to win a reward,” she explains. “A woman who's a 9 or a 10 doesn't have to do any work to get a man, so the system usually isn't triggered and she doesn't feel romantic love. But when someone spurns her, that system will kick in and she'll feel attraction.”
We can't be blamed for our innate trigger systems, can we? But to be fooled by the crocodile tears of male “vulnerability”? Even here we're conditioned to respond, Hazan says. “Vulnerability draws us to people—it's clearly a hardwired characteristic. We have this spontaneous desire to nurture them, to alleviate their distress.”
-Elle Magazine
http://www.elle.com/article.asp?section_id=36&article_id=5820&page_number=5&preview=&magind=5790
Props to him! Mystery is one creative mo-fo enjoying a lifestyle that most men wish they could have.
However, I do disagree that with his definition of what a typical "AFC" does with telling us that the "AFC" will "hit on a woman by telegraphing sex and trying to get her into bed as quickly as possible".
His differentiation between himself and [a guy who doesn't use his methods] is a bit skewed. I'm curious as to why he thinks that he is NOT trying to quickly bed these women? He teaches how to get from A to B smoothly and quickly (complete with LMR -Last Minute Resistance) techniques just in case the girl starts feeling hesitant about fvcking.
mon bro.... U just wanna talk with them and make 'em feel warm and fuzzy instead?
Bottom line: I say props to him! He's made a name for himself and helped many guys along the way. Nice work Mystery!
Cheers!
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