Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Ok....Admittedly my cold approaching is the part of my game that REALLY sucks. Apart from that I think i have everything sorted. So i am going to work on it over then next few weeks so I can turn myself from a DJ to a PUA. Basically then I belive i will be able to pick up any girl in any situation.
So cold approaching.....brr.....
I have no "Fear of Rejection" the only issue i have with cold approaching is "constant rejection". Hence I think i am going wrong somewhere as on introductional pickups i have about a 85% success rate.
So here is an example of a cold approach from the other night. Please critaise where you think i went wrong or if you think she was just not intrested...
My Question is how to stop a pause in the convo....Does that show lack of intrest or shyness?
Noticed a girl standing on her own....looking pretty bored. Perfect target?
So lets test abit of cold approaching....
Me: Hey
HB: Hey there
Me: You look really bored
HB: Yeah, Just waiting for some friends to get here
Me: Cool, my names Tomatoes btw
HB: <name>
Me: How long you been waiting here for
HB: Oh not long
Little pause 1
Me: You watch the England game today?
HB: Nah i was at work
Me: Ah that sucks, where do you work?
HB: Nottingham, work in an underwear store
Me: Do you rekon you could sort me out?
HB: lol...its ladies underwear
Me: and? lol
Pause number 2
I felt i wasnt getting anywhere and she wasnt intrested. Kept looking down on where her friends are ment to be arriving from.
My mates got up so I did a quick close (not number as i sensed no intrest and I was only practising)
Me: Well its been nice talking to you, I got to dash now
HB: Later
Me: Bye
All her answers were very closed.....no attempts to create convo. How do you stop those convo pauses.
The only reason I find cold approaches is because of the way i see it.
Take sales for example. I run my shop. If someone comes in I can sell to them no problems. Its easy!
I worked in Cold Calling telesales shortly and couldnt sell a thing. I didnt like the fact that I was bothering people without them asking for it or showing intrest orginally. If someone comes in my shop.....they are showing intresting in buying....
Does anyone see what im trying to say?
Tips and critaism please. Dont post if you dont know what your on about please.
Sarge On!
So cold approaching.....brr.....
I have no "Fear of Rejection" the only issue i have with cold approaching is "constant rejection". Hence I think i am going wrong somewhere as on introductional pickups i have about a 85% success rate.
So here is an example of a cold approach from the other night. Please critaise where you think i went wrong or if you think she was just not intrested...
My Question is how to stop a pause in the convo....Does that show lack of intrest or shyness?
Noticed a girl standing on her own....looking pretty bored. Perfect target?
So lets test abit of cold approaching....
Me: Hey
HB: Hey there
Me: You look really bored
HB: Yeah, Just waiting for some friends to get here
Me: Cool, my names Tomatoes btw
HB: <name>
Me: How long you been waiting here for
HB: Oh not long
Little pause 1
Me: You watch the England game today?
HB: Nah i was at work
Me: Ah that sucks, where do you work?
HB: Nottingham, work in an underwear store
Me: Do you rekon you could sort me out?
HB: lol...its ladies underwear
Me: and? lol
Pause number 2
I felt i wasnt getting anywhere and she wasnt intrested. Kept looking down on where her friends are ment to be arriving from.
My mates got up so I did a quick close (not number as i sensed no intrest and I was only practising)
Me: Well its been nice talking to you, I got to dash now
HB: Later
Me: Bye
All her answers were very closed.....no attempts to create convo. How do you stop those convo pauses.
The only reason I find cold approaches is because of the way i see it.
Take sales for example. I run my shop. If someone comes in I can sell to them no problems. Its easy!
I worked in Cold Calling telesales shortly and couldnt sell a thing. I didnt like the fact that I was bothering people without them asking for it or showing intrest orginally. If someone comes in my shop.....they are showing intresting in buying....
Does anyone see what im trying to say?
Tips and critaism please. Dont post if you dont know what your on about please.
Sarge On!