I'm really at a loss right now...
I've been with my GF for over a year now. Our relationship is great, everything is going fine, yadayadaya.
This isn't so much a relationship problem as it is a personal problem. I can't seem to deal with my jealousy/insecurity of my GF being unfaithful. The scary thing is, she's absolutely crazy about me, and isn't really the type of cheat. And if I can't be secure in a relationship with her, then I really don't know how I can EVER be secure with ANYONE in a relationship.
For instance- she would receive a TOTALLY platonic text from one of her male friends, but the second I see it, my heart sinks like lead. The emotions just come rushing in, and I can't help but feel like crapAnd I'm constantly checking up on her on MSN to see if she's online, and checking out her facebook (although I've managed to stop doing this now).
I know I sound like an insecure wuss, but really, this is the only problem I have. Otherwise, I would say I'm pretty sorted out.
Do you guys have a solution for this? I just want to get rid of my insecurity, and stop feeling like crap all the time. To be honest, I know that if she actually cheated, I would dump her butt faster than the speed of light (I don't wanna be in a relationship with a hor anyways). I just wanna get rid of these horrible emotions- its beginning to drive me crazy!
thx
I've been with my GF for over a year now. Our relationship is great, everything is going fine, yadayadaya.
This isn't so much a relationship problem as it is a personal problem. I can't seem to deal with my jealousy/insecurity of my GF being unfaithful. The scary thing is, she's absolutely crazy about me, and isn't really the type of cheat. And if I can't be secure in a relationship with her, then I really don't know how I can EVER be secure with ANYONE in a relationship.
For instance- she would receive a TOTALLY platonic text from one of her male friends, but the second I see it, my heart sinks like lead. The emotions just come rushing in, and I can't help but feel like crapAnd I'm constantly checking up on her on MSN to see if she's online, and checking out her facebook (although I've managed to stop doing this now).
I know I sound like an insecure wuss, but really, this is the only problem I have. Otherwise, I would say I'm pretty sorted out.
Do you guys have a solution for this? I just want to get rid of my insecurity, and stop feeling like crap all the time. To be honest, I know that if she actually cheated, I would dump her butt faster than the speed of light (I don't wanna be in a relationship with a hor anyways). I just wanna get rid of these horrible emotions- its beginning to drive me crazy!
thx