22 male still live at home. I am definitely moving out by next year. Will be going to make some money and find a roommate. I am not sure if the average 21-22 year old still lives at home or not but i am pretty sure more than half does. Still in college but i go to a COMMUTER SCHOOL.
I know if you live at your parents home that you have to abide by their rules but are they allowed to check out your stuff. I got really pissed off last night when i came home and found my drawers where i put my personal stuff there such as my money, credit cards and other personal things there and found out my mom went through my stuff.
This is not new news. She has been constantly doing this since i was a child. I have told her at least 500 times out of my mouth the line do not check my stuff. Its not your business and why are you looking through my stuff. I been saying this stuff since i was 18 to her. I dont go into your room and check out your things. I am also Chinese by the way and most Asians will tell you their parents are overbearing. Mine are and my mom is just damn noisy. I have a younger sister thats 19 and she does that stuff too. She even tells her she shouldnt be friends with so and so and my sister usually crys and gets mad. This is THIS SUMMER b/c my sister is staying at home this summer b/c she goes to college upstate and lives there during school time. I still live at home b/c I do not have money now but will be looking ASAP early next year b/c I cannot stand it anymore.
My question is are parents allowed to do this stuff? Its an invasion of privacy but i still live under their home... we live in an apartment not house. She never TAKES my stuff but she just goes through my desk and all those things. I am not home most of the time but i tell her EVERY DAMN TIME don't go into my room when I am not home. The solution some of you say is to lock the door but isn't just TELLING your mother don't go into my room NOT ENOUGH? I had a couple of locks but i had this habit of misplacing or losing my keys to my room so I stopped doing that.
She even called me like at 1130pm and asked me if i was coming back home and where i was. I mean... is this pathetic or what? The thing that pisses me off the most is that she does this crap to my sister. My dad notices too and says stop it but he is like that to my sister as well just not that much. Last year when she went to college, they were so worried and kept calling my sister every damn day. I told them to stop worrying and when my sister said her first day there she didn't like it... my parents wanted to go there and get her back and make her transfer to a commuter school. I told them HELL NO b/c my sisters life was going to be like **** if she stayed at home for school. She still staying in school upstate so she lives there.
Anyone have parents like this? I mean overbearing AND noisy? They even ask you who do you like and does anyone like you? I mean is that even damn their business what i do?
thanks everyone.
I know if you live at your parents home that you have to abide by their rules but are they allowed to check out your stuff. I got really pissed off last night when i came home and found my drawers where i put my personal stuff there such as my money, credit cards and other personal things there and found out my mom went through my stuff.
This is not new news. She has been constantly doing this since i was a child. I have told her at least 500 times out of my mouth the line do not check my stuff. Its not your business and why are you looking through my stuff. I been saying this stuff since i was 18 to her. I dont go into your room and check out your things. I am also Chinese by the way and most Asians will tell you their parents are overbearing. Mine are and my mom is just damn noisy. I have a younger sister thats 19 and she does that stuff too. She even tells her she shouldnt be friends with so and so and my sister usually crys and gets mad. This is THIS SUMMER b/c my sister is staying at home this summer b/c she goes to college upstate and lives there during school time. I still live at home b/c I do not have money now but will be looking ASAP early next year b/c I cannot stand it anymore.
My question is are parents allowed to do this stuff? Its an invasion of privacy but i still live under their home... we live in an apartment not house. She never TAKES my stuff but she just goes through my desk and all those things. I am not home most of the time but i tell her EVERY DAMN TIME don't go into my room when I am not home. The solution some of you say is to lock the door but isn't just TELLING your mother don't go into my room NOT ENOUGH? I had a couple of locks but i had this habit of misplacing or losing my keys to my room so I stopped doing that.
She even called me like at 1130pm and asked me if i was coming back home and where i was. I mean... is this pathetic or what? The thing that pisses me off the most is that she does this crap to my sister. My dad notices too and says stop it but he is like that to my sister as well just not that much. Last year when she went to college, they were so worried and kept calling my sister every damn day. I told them to stop worrying and when my sister said her first day there she didn't like it... my parents wanted to go there and get her back and make her transfer to a commuter school. I told them HELL NO b/c my sisters life was going to be like **** if she stayed at home for school. She still staying in school upstate so she lives there.
Anyone have parents like this? I mean overbearing AND noisy? They even ask you who do you like and does anyone like you? I mean is that even damn their business what i do?
thanks everyone.
because she was such an emotional wreck and so vulnerable. She had very very very overbearing parents who she wouldn't even let know about me. She used to tell me about her home life with tears in her eyes, its something I'll never forget. I told her to do what I'm telling you to do now...