the_stig
Senior Don Juan
I need some advice fellas - I've been spinning my tires lately - and might need to reevaluate myself and make some changes.
From 2008-2011 I was killing it on POF. No problems getting second dates and spinning plates, short flings, banging a new girl at minimum once per month while messing around with others on the regular.
Was in a LTR from Aug 2011 to Sept 2013.
I got back on POF from Oct to Dec and was meeting girls left and right. Except this time I garnered very little interest. Slept with two girls, messed around with a few others, but for the number I met, those numbers were very low compared to before.
Now I've been playing around with Tinder. Of the maybe dozen I've met, I haven't had so much as a second date. Basically never hear from them again.
I'm still the same 155 lb physique, same clothing style, non-smoker, runner/cyclist. Only potential problem that comes to mind is that I'm still using photos from 2011-2012 (no 2013 dated photos I really like), but I wouldn't use them if I thought my appearance had changed.
I'm stumped, not sure if I need to take a closer look at myself, or if standards are going up
From 2008-2011 I was killing it on POF. No problems getting second dates and spinning plates, short flings, banging a new girl at minimum once per month while messing around with others on the regular.
Was in a LTR from Aug 2011 to Sept 2013.
I got back on POF from Oct to Dec and was meeting girls left and right. Except this time I garnered very little interest. Slept with two girls, messed around with a few others, but for the number I met, those numbers were very low compared to before.
Now I've been playing around with Tinder. Of the maybe dozen I've met, I haven't had so much as a second date. Basically never hear from them again.
I'm still the same 155 lb physique, same clothing style, non-smoker, runner/cyclist. Only potential problem that comes to mind is that I'm still using photos from 2011-2012 (no 2013 dated photos I really like), but I wouldn't use them if I thought my appearance had changed.
I'm stumped, not sure if I need to take a closer look at myself, or if standards are going up