CuddleJunkie
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 9, 2015
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What are the conditions of possibility for Oneitis to appear? In which soil its seeds find the richest nutrients, and in which conditions does this climbing plant grows? I will share with all of you the ongoing oneitis process developing in my psyche, so we all can learn, discuss, and device the best weapons against it.
Please, notice the relationships between the numbers in each subset.
How the women aspect of my life was when I met my oneitis girl:
1. Went through a dryspell of almost 5 months.
2. I was having frequent anti-game, anti-development thoughts. The typical "just be yourself" trap. I thank the gods for I didn't fall during this period, and kept on pushing myself.
3. The first IOIs I started to see came from what I consider low-quality women, the slutty type. I never went for it.
How my oneitis girl is:
1. Shares interests (philosophy, politics, ecology, etc).
2. The most amazing body I've ever fvck.
3. Takes care of me (cooks, gives massages, overall a sweet girl).
How the women aspect of my life is right now:
1. Have at least 2 interested girls going after me.
2. I can easily talk with any kind of girl and elicit some level of interest, even if I'm not conciously trying to do so. I know that game works, I study and practice it. At the same time, I take my development very seriously.
3. I get IOIs from what I consider quality women, the art/literature educated type.
The kind of thoughts that arise on my mind in relationship to my oneitis girl:
1. "I don't know if I will have regular pvssy if this falls apart".
2. "Other girls don't have this soft, sexy body".
3. "Not many girls have this femenine attitude towards the guys they are fvcking, I want to be treated this well".
4. This is a big one guys "She doesn't deserve that I go after these other girls, she's too sweet for me to do that".
Feel free to analyze the points, find relationships between them and offer your advice. My take on this ongoing situation is:
1. I'm afraid of not getting laid regularly for a long time again (dry-spell fear).
2. I consider most girls boring to talk to, not this one.
3. I still have blue-pill gender relationships concepts, such as committment on my part. I understand on a intellectual level that I would do nothing wrong on having multiple plates; not so much on a deep understanding level (aka I would feel bad about it).
4. This is dangerous, if I don't keep on gaming other girls and creating plates out of them, I won't reach the level of game-mastery I want. And I want to reach a really high-level.
Please, notice the relationships between the numbers in each subset.
How the women aspect of my life was when I met my oneitis girl:
1. Went through a dryspell of almost 5 months.
2. I was having frequent anti-game, anti-development thoughts. The typical "just be yourself" trap. I thank the gods for I didn't fall during this period, and kept on pushing myself.
3. The first IOIs I started to see came from what I consider low-quality women, the slutty type. I never went for it.
How my oneitis girl is:
1. Shares interests (philosophy, politics, ecology, etc).
2. The most amazing body I've ever fvck.
3. Takes care of me (cooks, gives massages, overall a sweet girl).
How the women aspect of my life is right now:
1. Have at least 2 interested girls going after me.
2. I can easily talk with any kind of girl and elicit some level of interest, even if I'm not conciously trying to do so. I know that game works, I study and practice it. At the same time, I take my development very seriously.
3. I get IOIs from what I consider quality women, the art/literature educated type.
The kind of thoughts that arise on my mind in relationship to my oneitis girl:
1. "I don't know if I will have regular pvssy if this falls apart".
2. "Other girls don't have this soft, sexy body".
3. "Not many girls have this femenine attitude towards the guys they are fvcking, I want to be treated this well".
4. This is a big one guys "She doesn't deserve that I go after these other girls, she's too sweet for me to do that".
Feel free to analyze the points, find relationships between them and offer your advice. My take on this ongoing situation is:
1. I'm afraid of not getting laid regularly for a long time again (dry-spell fear).
2. I consider most girls boring to talk to, not this one.
3. I still have blue-pill gender relationships concepts, such as committment on my part. I understand on a intellectual level that I would do nothing wrong on having multiple plates; not so much on a deep understanding level (aka I would feel bad about it).
4. This is dangerous, if I don't keep on gaming other girls and creating plates out of them, I won't reach the level of game-mastery I want. And I want to reach a really high-level.