FGarcia1
Senior Don Juan
Well, it's been a while since I've posted, but I thought I'd share this with you all:
Now, I don't really know any of you. That is, I've not spent enough time on this board to really know how you all think. There are those, though, who give off the impression that they feel inferior or somehow worthless because they don't have a girlfriend, or can't seem to get one interested in you, or otherwise. But let's think about this for a second:
What defines success in life? To those of you who struggle to find girls and are frustrated with what you would consider pitiful results, a girl is success. To others, it's material posessions. To others still, it's what is accomplished while on this earth. Still others would say it is not important at all! The point is, we all have different views on what defines our success.
Those of you who think you're inferior because you haven't caught a girl: you're only inferior to those who value girls as their definition for success. That is, only to those who think having girls around them is a key factor in being successful are you inferior. People who don't care so much about girls as they do about money don't care if you've not caught one yet. People who are living their lives for others don't care if you haven't caught a girl. The only ones who do are the ones who care about girls to the point that they define their worth by their ability to get a girl.
How many guys do you suppose really think this way?
Do you really think the majority of people define success by measure of their attractiveness with girls? No, of course not. In fact, I would be apt to say that those people who ARE widely successful with girls are the people who LEAST care about girls; in fact, these people who get tons of women are usually trying to achieve success in something else, and would feel lucky if they could do something else with their lives.
The point is, for those of you who define your self-worth by your ability to get girls:
No one cares.
Simple as that. Now, this is not to be hypocritical, but you'd be surprised what happens when you take this mindset...
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"Only a life lived for others is worth living." --Albert Einstein
"When nothing makes sense, I'll fight believing only in myself."--Heero Yuy, Gundam Wing
Now, I don't really know any of you. That is, I've not spent enough time on this board to really know how you all think. There are those, though, who give off the impression that they feel inferior or somehow worthless because they don't have a girlfriend, or can't seem to get one interested in you, or otherwise. But let's think about this for a second:
What defines success in life? To those of you who struggle to find girls and are frustrated with what you would consider pitiful results, a girl is success. To others, it's material posessions. To others still, it's what is accomplished while on this earth. Still others would say it is not important at all! The point is, we all have different views on what defines our success.
Those of you who think you're inferior because you haven't caught a girl: you're only inferior to those who value girls as their definition for success. That is, only to those who think having girls around them is a key factor in being successful are you inferior. People who don't care so much about girls as they do about money don't care if you've not caught one yet. People who are living their lives for others don't care if you haven't caught a girl. The only ones who do are the ones who care about girls to the point that they define their worth by their ability to get a girl.
How many guys do you suppose really think this way?
Do you really think the majority of people define success by measure of their attractiveness with girls? No, of course not. In fact, I would be apt to say that those people who ARE widely successful with girls are the people who LEAST care about girls; in fact, these people who get tons of women are usually trying to achieve success in something else, and would feel lucky if they could do something else with their lives.
The point is, for those of you who define your self-worth by your ability to get girls:
No one cares.
Simple as that. Now, this is not to be hypocritical, but you'd be surprised what happens when you take this mindset...
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"Only a life lived for others is worth living." --Albert Einstein
"When nothing makes sense, I'll fight believing only in myself."--Heero Yuy, Gundam Wing
