The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 4, 2005
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I hit a bar or two with a few friends this past weekend, and there was one happening there that raised an eyebrow with me. A girl I used to go to high school with came over and started talking to me. Now I saw a nice little ring on her finger, so I could figure she has a bf of some sort (not that I'd be interested, just an observation I made). We were talking for a few minutes, when all of a sudden, the bf comes over! To my surprise, this guy seemed pretty cool and nice, and he started talking to me and there were no problems whatsoever.
One of my buddies who buys into all of the PUA material thinks he was acting nice because I didn't seem like a "threat" to his girl (they were bf/gf, I made a good call there lol). I came up with three possible answers:
1.) He's just a good guy and seems confident in himself.
2.) I must have really not seemed like a threat. There wasn't much kino since it was only for a couple mins and I wasn't all that interested in her.
3.) I'm a bit bigger than he is, so him trying to start a fight wouldn't be a smart move for him.
Now I doubt it's #3, I'm thinking #1. If there's something I could use a little help with, it would be, "How can I make myself as more of a threat?" I don't like sometimes coming off as a guy who seems harmless because I'm composed and respectful (NOT a nice guy, I don't do anything desperate/insecure in these encounters).
One of my buddies who buys into all of the PUA material thinks he was acting nice because I didn't seem like a "threat" to his girl (they were bf/gf, I made a good call there lol). I came up with three possible answers:
1.) He's just a good guy and seems confident in himself.
2.) I must have really not seemed like a threat. There wasn't much kino since it was only for a couple mins and I wasn't all that interested in her.
3.) I'm a bit bigger than he is, so him trying to start a fight wouldn't be a smart move for him.
Now I doubt it's #3, I'm thinking #1. If there's something I could use a little help with, it would be, "How can I make myself as more of a threat?" I don't like sometimes coming off as a guy who seems harmless because I'm composed and respectful (NOT a nice guy, I don't do anything desperate/insecure in these encounters).