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Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)

narcissist

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Fvck. I'm in.

The longest I have gone is 16 days.

You guys really need to motivate me and help me through it.

No porn either for me. I know that after 6-7 days, if I watch porn, I'll give in.

I will however still be fvcking my girl. So for me, s3x is aloud.

Good luck. Day 1.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Fvck. I'm in.

The longest I have gone is 16 days.

You guys really need to motivate me and help me through it.

No porn either for me. I know that after 6-7 days, if I watch porn, I'll give in.

I will however still be fvcking my girl. So for me, s3x is aloud.

Good luck. Day 1.
Sex is fine. Some of the men need to be re-trained so that sex is their only allowable outlet. Reward SUCCESS!
 

Infern0

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Yeah I'm doing no porn 2. Let's all encourage each other. 30 days shouldn't be difficult
 

70th Win

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I used to really commit to long periods of no fap and I definitely noticed it helped me act more natural/confident around girls.

Felt like my **** and brain were perfectly synced together, if that makes sense. Thinking about it, the same thing happens when I get really hungry too. All self consciousness fades away and I speak freely and confidently.

I know the science always gives mixed results but personally I think it works. It doesn't make any sense to refrain from sex in hopes of seeing the same results though.
 

Floydispink01

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I'm in.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I used to really commit to long periods of no fap and I definitely noticed it helped me act more natural/confident around girls.

Felt like my **** and brain were perfectly synced together, if that makes sense. Thinking about it, the same thing happens when I get really hungry too. All self consciousness fades away and I speak freely and confidently.

I know the science always gives mixed results but personally I think it works. It doesn't make any sense to refrain from sex in hopes of seeing the same results though.
Yes. Have SEX. But do not have SEX with yourself! SEX with a female is a REWARD for positive and successful behavior.
 

ChristopherColumbus

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This should go without saying for men who take pride in themselves. Amazing how far we have come.
 

Infern0

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Some things to be aware of (from someone with some experience with nofap)

First couple of days are usually easy

Days 4-10 are usually the hardest (for me anyway)

Day 11 testosterone levels peak and you should feel it.

Also at times you may feel depressed, anxious, tired and you **** may even feel dead. Thus is NORMAL. Do not panic, most guys fail at this stage and go back to fapping out of fear.

This stage is actually withdrawel from porn addiction so if this happens it's a good thing, this is a clear sign that porn and fapping has actually done some neurological damage which you probably aren't even aware of, and you can expect some major benefits if you can push through.

Good luck everyone.
 

JohnChops

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Some things to be aware of (from someone with some experience with nofap)

First couple of days are usually easy

Days 4-10 are usually the hardest (for me anyway)

Day 11 testosterone levels peak and you should feel it.

Also at times you may feel depressed, anxious, tired and you **** may even feel dead. Thus is NORMAL. Do not panic, most guys fail at this stage and go back to fapping out of fear.

This stage is actually withdrawel from porn addiction so if this happens it's a good thing, this is a clear sign that porn and fapping has actually done some neurological damage which you probably aren't even aware of, and you can expect some major benefits if you can push through.

Good luck everyone.
ive seen blood work from people on no fap, the amount of free test seems to be an average of about 3-4 points, which is not noticeable. Sadly, it is placebo. What you are feeling is not a build up of testosterone, hormones do not work that way, you can only build as much as the negative feedback system will let you. What you are feeling is vitality, from not blowing your wad every day to a computer screen.

anyway, i'm still on day 20+, I lost count , but don't feel like jerking it to porn.

What I have noticed is motivation is somewhat increased, but I never had an issue there. Girls open me up more, which I do not know why, nothing has changed except this. It may be something subtle I was doing before that is gone now, possibly due to no fap. You feel more aggressive and assertive with women.
 

The Duke

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I see these thread come up here once a month or so. I'm quite surprised its such an issue for some.
 

hockeyfreak79

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It's been awhile since I've given it a serious try.

I'm in!

Porn is easy to not look at for me. It's GoneWild that's a bit more of a challenge.
 

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I am also in... from tomorow on till 31.01.2017. Did it last year for 100 Days. It was awesome. Superpowers, till you relapse...


THE FIRST RULE OF NOFAP: Your bedroom is for sleeping only. You will wake up, leave, and comeback to sleep. Nothing more.
 

NSX-R

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I'm in.

Already 6 days without faping and i feel fantastic. I'll post every 3-4 days and type any differences i notice.
 
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