no sex, no love no nothing

[rsofa]

So I like this girl, and me and my friends go out with her a lot and hang out.
I try to get her but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend, because it's stupid to have one.
Also telling her sex jokes, or just mentioning something without clothes, or saying something about sex. She always says that's disgusting, and she doesn't want to have sex...
I don't know if she lying or she's really so anti sex things, nothing turns her on


It may sound like I just want her for sex, but i'm not, i'm just trying to get her in some way ....
And she likes me the most, always hangs out with me and we do stuff together, I wouldn't say im her best friend because she doesn't talk with me like her best friends..

What am I doing wrong, is there hope or what?

 

[AlexLefty]

how old are you

 

[The Bat]

You are her best friend. Sorry, dude. She sees you as more as a brother than a potential lover hence her disgust for all the sex/nudity stuff.

You need to start flirting with other girls including this girl's girl-friends.

 

[SamTheHobit]

You are her best friend. Sorry, dude. She sees you as more as a brother than a potential lover hence her disgust for all the sex/nudity stuff.

You need to start flirting with other girls including this girl's girl-friends.

Yip.

 

[Dominance]

Alot of the time if you mention sex directly in their psychology they pretty much have to be like "eew that's disgusting" so as not to be seen as slutty.

If you say this stuff and she still hangs around or keeps coming back that is a pretty good sign. Instead of talking about it and making jokes, kiss her or something and see.

 

[rsofa]

yea, but most of the girls I talk to are not like ewww and stuff. She's kind of different or just shy to talk about it.
Me and my friends are going out to eat now, and I asked her if she's hungry...She said she isn't hungry but wants to go along... strange
She's 16.

 

[Huffman]

she says she doesn't want a boyfriend, because it's stupid to have one.

Only one thing: Had she really met an awesome guy, she'd be falling heads over heels to give the "boyfriend" thing a try!

The sad truth: that awesome guy isn't you.

Although I hope you will change that at some point.

Merry Christmas!

 

[rsofa]

After, asking her a bunch of stuff she said to me she only kisses and makes out occasionally on parties when she's really drunk.
The last time that she kissed someone sober was last year on new year. Then she didn't want to go over the details. I'm suspecting something bad must have happened and she fears relationships??

 

[goundra]

man, you are stressing over NOTHING. Go improve yourself, get a black belt, get skilled with guns, get a PILE of money, THEN get a 3rd world wife, and make it a BEAUTIFUL, smart, sexy one, and only count on having her for the 5 years it takes her to become a US citizen. Get her to sign a prenuptial agreement about finances, get a vasectomy before having sex with her, and don't ever let her know much a bout your finances or goodies. Figure on getting another such woman every 5 years. You do NOT have to take whatever crap these US *****es want to hand out. Just ignore them, follow this game plan, and youll have it all, soon enough.

 

[rsofa]

@goundra
lol...
That's something that im not interested in.

 

[AlexLefty]

@goundra
lol...
That's something that im not interested in.

Yeah wtf lol.

You analyze too much. the simple fact is, make a movie. Do something her only her, and kiss her. The point of this is to figure out once and for all if she likes you. One you figure out that she doesn't, accept it, accept that you're not going to get with her and that you're not going to talk to her again. Accept it and move on.

 

[DanZy]

man, you are stressing over NOTHING. Go improve yourself, get a black belt, get skilled with guns, get a PILE of money, THEN get a 3rd world wife, and make it a BEAUTIFUL, smart, sexy one, and only count on having her for the 5 years it takes her to become a US citizen. Get her to sign a prenuptial agreement about finances, get a vasectomy before having sex with her, and don't ever let her know much a bout your finances or goodies. Figure on getting another such woman every 5 years. You do NOT have to take whatever crap these US *****es want to hand out. Just ignore them, follow this game plan, and youll have it all, soon enough.

Mate, cut all this unrealistic sh1t that doesn't ever apply to anyone's situation. No one on the high school forum is going to even consider doing such an absurd thing. Nothing you say is relevant here. Cool you've found your plan, go and do it and leave the rest of us be.

 

[kathy20052012]

son have sex without love
daughter should have a new love can sex

 

[Amo]

how old are you

She's 16.

Yes, but how old are you?

 

[rsofa]

I just turned 18

 

[LearningSlowly]

Oh man. You're stressing over a girl that's younger than you. In high school, younger girls were the easiest to get.

Here's a hard lesson to learn-- no matter what conversations you have through technology, it is only the conversations in person that will win a girl over. All of this virtual sex talk is doing more harm than good. (That is how these conversations happen right? Because if you have an in-person conversation about who she's kissed, you probably get a shot to kiss her. Not so with the internet)

It sounds like this girl is too young for you. If a girl told me the most I could get was a make out, I would leave her alone and go find sex.

 

[rsofa]

Im going on a trip with my friends, and ill have some alone time with her for an hour or 2 tell me how should I make a move?
Should i just go and kiss her?
Or ask her how she feels about me?
Tell her my feelings?
Or something else?

 

[Dominance]

She always says that's disgusting, and she doesn't want to have sex...

That's what I meant by the 'eww' thing, she is saying 'that's disgusting' because she feels she has to.

And yes you should just kiss her. Don't ask her how she feels or tell her your feelings. If you see signs of attraction then kiss her.

 

[rsofa]

Okay i will, here goes nothing...or something..

 

[rsofa]

worst denial ever.