James Bondage
Don Juan
Dude! There's only 24 hours in a day! Thats almost one an hour!
Wow.
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No Porn, No Masturbation
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Wow.
Knocking one out every day is actually good for you i think. Keeps the soldier healthy and happy.
Also, it helps you prevent blowing your load too quickly when you actually f*ck a chick.
There is nothing wrong with it, men of all ages do it. I think the phrase goes:
97% of men masturbate regularly, and the other 3% lie about it.
Also, it helps you prevent blowing your load too quickly when you actually f*ck a chick.
There is nothing wrong with it, men of all ages do it. I think the phrase goes:
97% of men masturbate regularly, and the other 3% lie about it.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
I can usually last a long time the FIRST time I fvck a chick because i'm not AS comfortable with her as I will become. Usually as the relationship (i've never had a one night stand) unfolds, my stamina drops as well. Kinda wierd huh.
theres a lot of truth in this post.
if you can see past all the bull**** you idiots are spewing.
Stopping masturbation will not make you successful with women.
If youve been taken in by this scam, you've just added another crutch to your long list.
Slave to the ***** you *****es are.
The greatest power men can have over a woman is to be free from the need of sex.
if you can see past all the bull**** you idiots are spewing.
Stopping masturbation will not make you successful with women.
If youve been taken in by this scam, you've just added another crutch to your long list.
Slave to the ***** you *****es are.
The greatest power men can have over a woman is to be free from the need of sex.
Jester your wrong. It might not work for you but it sure as hell makes a difference to my life. Sure it might not lead directly to sex, but the confidence gain that it brings is more than worth it imo.
I think the only conclusion that can be drawn is that it works for some and not for others. So try it and see...
I think the only conclusion that can be drawn is that it works for some and not for others. So try it and see...
T Money
Senior Don Juan
exactly jt4aa.
It's not like I stopped masturbating JUST so I can get laid more.
No, no no. I just want more confidence and this helps a lot.
It's not like I stopped masturbating JUST so I can get laid more.
No, no no. I just want more confidence and this helps a lot.
youre missing my point.
i dont care if it works or not.
It is a crutch. If you need to do something or not do something to have confidence in yourself, then you still have a lot you need to work on.
its directly comparable to someone saying, "smoke weed and you will have confidence in approaching"
but thats not really the point either.
Clear thoughts can only come when you eliminate need. When youre starving, all you can think about is getting something to eat, when youre thirsty, all you can think about is getting something to drink. If theres a candy bar in front of you and youre starving, youre gonna eat that **** without a doubt, instead of finding something good for you.
sex is a need too. and i like having a clear head. but if youre so afraid that you need to be starving in order to eat, then you have a problem my man.
i dont care if it works or not.
It is a crutch. If you need to do something or not do something to have confidence in yourself, then you still have a lot you need to work on.
its directly comparable to someone saying, "smoke weed and you will have confidence in approaching"
but thats not really the point either.
Clear thoughts can only come when you eliminate need. When youre starving, all you can think about is getting something to eat, when youre thirsty, all you can think about is getting something to drink. If theres a candy bar in front of you and youre starving, youre gonna eat that **** without a doubt, instead of finding something good for you.
sex is a need too. and i like having a clear head. but if youre so afraid that you need to be starving in order to eat, then you have a problem my man.
It's not about the sex its about the confidence. For me no masturbation = more confidence = success and happiness. I think your missing the point of this site - Its not just about women or fulfilling needs.
Everybody gains and maintains confidence in their own way. Its not up to you to tell me how to be, its up to me to find out for myself. Its impossible to be 100% confident all the time. This helps me stay in the top 90's and I'm gonna keep doing it for as long as it stays that way.
Both yours and mine are valid viewpoints. Lets not argue forever eh?
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Everybody gains and maintains confidence in their own way. Its not up to you to tell me how to be, its up to me to find out for myself. Its impossible to be 100% confident all the time. This helps me stay in the top 90's and I'm gonna keep doing it for as long as it stays that way.
Both yours and mine are valid viewpoints. Lets not argue forever eh?
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contradikt
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I agree with Jester. I think masturbation is healthy and enjoyable, however, your attitude towards masturbation is very important. If you feel guilty before / during / after masturbation, it is going to affect you a lot.
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Senior Don Juan
sex isnt a need dude.
I tried no masturbating for a week and it seemed to make me more stressed. I don't know if this was psychosomatic or not, but I seemed to be obsessing more about women's bodies (especially when in public seeing all these phat asses walking around) and having sex with them. I even had trouble sleeping towards the end when I finally decided to start again. Mind you, I wasn't always horny and ready to do it, but NOT doing it made me focus more on sex.
I can't even describe the feeling of relief I experienced post ejaculation. It was like a wave came over me and I slept like a baby.
I guess it doesn't work for everyone.
I can't even describe the feeling of relief I experienced post ejaculation. It was like a wave came over me and I slept like a baby.
I guess it doesn't work for everyone.
BillBrasky
New Member
I think the "No Masturbation = Game" argument is quite interesting. A placebo effect could explain quite a bit, but then there is some validity to the whole "if the Placebo works, then stick with it" philosophy. Good thread.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
The better analogy might be akin to learning to do something you want that is difficult as opposed to taking the easy way out.
Take cooking, for example. I'm a crap cook, and my usual "dinner" consists of some sort of frozen instant meal or a stop at a local take-out place on the way home from classes. I decided that I needed to learn to cook food on my own, so I made a resolution to myself that I wouldn't get take out for 2 weeks.
I'm still an awful cook, but those 2 weeks at least forced me to learn a few things to make the food I cooked taste something resembling edible.
I think this is a good post, I would find myelf agreeing with Jester and what he said.. I tried not stroking for 3 weeks, and found myself with constant boners and thinking more about it. The game is about attitude, so I put more into learning and going out there and trying things ...that is what builds skills and gives you the BALLS to do it.
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
I've gone without for the past two weeks. No noticable change in my ******d appearance or attitude, other than my balls are huge, I have raging morning wood and I swear my voice is a bit lower. I actually had my first wet dream in, like, 10 years. Wierd.