Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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I recently came near a death medical experience. The doctor pretty much said I should be prepared. And so, I began thinking how I would set up my death arrangements in an effort to minimize the burden on my family. I estimated funeral costs, etc. and how I would keep my condition a secret. Furthermore, I began to think how much more I could have done with my life and how I had wasted my youth being lazy, making excuses not to approach women, etc. It was a very difficult situation. In fact, I was devastated for a few days, losing considerable sleep. I kept thinking "If only I got a 2nd chance..." I would do things much differently. I did a lot of praying and so did my mother.
And guess what? My wish was granted. The diagnosis (which I can't reveal, but would have killed me in a few years) came out in my favor. In other words, I came very close to dying in my mid 20's. And now that I know I will live, I am giving my life a complete turn. I have been consistently eating much healthier, exercising more, being more social, and I am on my way to being "fearless" as my friend calls me. In fact, he thinks I'm fearless now. I disagree. Hence, I'm stepping my life to the next level. I am significantly less inhibited and sliced the number of excuses I make. Whenever I want to wimp out, I compare my current reality to how things would have gone had the diagnosis not been in my favor: death.
In conclusion, I have become a different person--a new version of myself with multiple improvements. This thread is now my official journal in which I'll write at least biweekly about my successes, failures, and everything in the middle including funny stories, field reports, lay reports, etc. I am honored to share this with all of you. I now look forward to waking up each day of my life. Still making excuses? Think of your buddy Robyn next time you do.
Keep being money,
-R
And guess what? My wish was granted. The diagnosis (which I can't reveal, but would have killed me in a few years) came out in my favor. In other words, I came very close to dying in my mid 20's. And now that I know I will live, I am giving my life a complete turn. I have been consistently eating much healthier, exercising more, being more social, and I am on my way to being "fearless" as my friend calls me. In fact, he thinks I'm fearless now. I disagree. Hence, I'm stepping my life to the next level. I am significantly less inhibited and sliced the number of excuses I make. Whenever I want to wimp out, I compare my current reality to how things would have gone had the diagnosis not been in my favor: death.
In conclusion, I have become a different person--a new version of myself with multiple improvements. This thread is now my official journal in which I'll write at least biweekly about my successes, failures, and everything in the middle including funny stories, field reports, lay reports, etc. I am honored to share this with all of you. I now look forward to waking up each day of my life. Still making excuses? Think of your buddy Robyn next time you do.
Keep being money,
-R