I Guys ,
I think I was an afc , used to shower my girl with gifts .Listening to bs.After reading it here I tried to change my attitidue. Became mor econfident , aggressive ( good way ) .After that we just have a small discussion about dinner , she saying too busy and I just said ai am flattered that you wil find sometime for me . Then I decided to go NC for tw0 months , send her Christmas card and one text but their is silence on the other side .So I am pretty sure I have lost her.But good thing is I am more confident and close to alpha then beta minus. only thing is she is till stuck in my mind for the last three months . spinning plate is not an option right now but I will try .so thanks to all of you guys my relationship is ended but I am not the same afc any more .now I have standards . But I think she is a player too she sensed it that I am not the same guy as before and the way she dump me was a little painful. How can I beat her in to her own game.AS may be I was wondering after NC she will miss me but that was not the case . I felt really bad when she didn't answer my one line text and there is silence from her . The same technique which people are advocating here . so what to do now
I think I was an afc , used to shower my girl with gifts .Listening to bs.After reading it here I tried to change my attitidue. Became mor econfident , aggressive ( good way ) .After that we just have a small discussion about dinner , she saying too busy and I just said ai am flattered that you wil find sometime for me . Then I decided to go NC for tw0 months , send her Christmas card and one text but their is silence on the other side .So I am pretty sure I have lost her.But good thing is I am more confident and close to alpha then beta minus. only thing is she is till stuck in my mind for the last three months . spinning plate is not an option right now but I will try .so thanks to all of you guys my relationship is ended but I am not the same afc any more .now I have standards . But I think she is a player too she sensed it that I am not the same guy as before and the way she dump me was a little painful. How can I beat her in to her own game.AS may be I was wondering after NC she will miss me but that was not the case . I felt really bad when she didn't answer my one line text and there is silence from her . The same technique which people are advocating here . so what to do now