Uber-mensch
New Member
Hey guys, I stumbled across this forum a few weeks and I've been reading it on and off since. I'm 18 and just got out of high school last year. I had a long term girlfriend through most of high school and I've gotten with a couple other chicks since but at this point in my life I feel I would like to um, diversify.
I'd like to get some weigh in on a particular situation. I met this girl at a show, and we hit it off. She agreed to come back and party at my place afterwards but nothing happened. I feel like maybe I should have been more aggressive, especially since the next day one of her friends told me she was "probably DTF". After she left, I was promptly added on facebook and she initiated conversation with me talking about how she wants to hang out again blah blah. Nothing concrete happened. Then, a week or so later she texts me asking if she can come over. I said I was busy because I had my ex girlfriend over and it would have been awkward. We talked a couple times on facebook or through text but I haven't seen her since. Then, yesterday I wake up to a facebook message from her sent at 3am "im drunk be my boyfriend". I teased her about it and we made plans to meet up but at the last minute she said she had to catch the ferry back home (she lives across the water from where I live, Seattle).
So, is it worth my time to try to hang out with her one more time? My band is playing a show on friday and I was thinking of asking her tome come. I'm pretty confident I could make something happen but I don't want to be AFC and waste my time chasing an AW. Opinions?
I'd like to get some weigh in on a particular situation. I met this girl at a show, and we hit it off. She agreed to come back and party at my place afterwards but nothing happened. I feel like maybe I should have been more aggressive, especially since the next day one of her friends told me she was "probably DTF". After she left, I was promptly added on facebook and she initiated conversation with me talking about how she wants to hang out again blah blah. Nothing concrete happened. Then, a week or so later she texts me asking if she can come over. I said I was busy because I had my ex girlfriend over and it would have been awkward. We talked a couple times on facebook or through text but I haven't seen her since. Then, yesterday I wake up to a facebook message from her sent at 3am "im drunk be my boyfriend". I teased her about it and we made plans to meet up but at the last minute she said she had to catch the ferry back home (she lives across the water from where I live, Seattle).
So, is it worth my time to try to hang out with her one more time? My band is playing a show on friday and I was thinking of asking her tome come. I'm pretty confident I could make something happen but I don't want to be AFC and waste my time chasing an AW. Opinions?
