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New girl likes sex but she is a prude.

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My new foreign girl is a prude and it sucks. She wants to have sex all the time, but it's either her on top, or missionary and she won't let me do doggie, she won't suck and she won't even let me touch her down there. I have ordered her to do it, but she is "not ready" for doggie style, and don't know when she'll be ready to start sucking.

Any tips on training this chic? She says she has never even watched a porno movie, and never did doggie with her ex.
 

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you got to bring her freak out. while missionary and she is really into it snap your d!ck out of her ***** really fast and head to her pvssy with your tongue. do it so fast that she doenst have a chance of stopping you.

you got to eat the girl out to bring her inner slvt out. after that she will be open to explore.
 

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Tiguere said:
you got to bring her freak out. while missionary and she is really into it snap your d!ck out of her ***** really fast and head to her pvssy with your tongue. do it so fast that she doenst have a chance of stopping you.

you got to eat the girl out to bring her inner slvt out. after that she will be open to explore.

yeah not bad, I might have to try that next time. I hope she doesn't stink down there. I had a bad experience and I like to inspect it first.
 

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Have you tried asking her what her hangups are? I personally think that she does that stuff for other guys. That's usually the case with women. If she was truly committed to you then she would be doing all that stuff and more. If you did all you could do and be all you could be and she still didn't comply? Kick her to the curb. Why should you sit around NOT getting what you want? YOU'RE THE MAN!
 

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S. Pryor said:
Have you tried asking her what her hangups are? I personally think that she does that stuff for other guys. That's usually the case with women. If she was truly committed to you then she would be doing all that stuff and more. If you did all you could do and be all you could be and she still didn't comply? Kick her to the curb. Why should you sit around NOT getting what you want? YOU'RE THE MAN!

I've only been hitting it for a couple weeks and she's foreign and religious. She has implied her religion is the reason. I know she could be faking a good girl but she might be like that. I don't think she's been around much. She made me wait 7 dates to bang her, and I got her to spread em by DUMPING her for being a prude, then she spread em on the next date. So obviously she didn't want me to go away since she came back with the p/ssy after I dumped her.

I think she just needs to be trained. I haven't tried very hard because I have just been happy with what she is giving me, but now I need her to step it up. Also, she is not doing it with anyone else, I would have dumped her by now if she was.
 

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You need to increase her immersion into the sex. Drive her wild by constantly teasing her(and not giving her what she actually wants) and holding her down. Be dominant, be aggressive, but also be a giant motherf*cking tease.

Run your fingers over her body but avoid all the hot spots. Avoid her nipples, instead run your fingers around them, avoid her vagoo, instead, run your fingers over her thighs and very closely to her outer labia. When she wants to jump you and ride you like a horse, push her back, pin her down, and deny what she wants.

From there on, work your thing. Run your fingers and tongue over her, still avoiding the hot spots. Tell her if she's a good girl, she might get some, but only if she is a good girl. Ask her if she's a good girl and if she will listen to your commands.

Don't push her limits too hard. Let her get used to all the extra attention that comes with it, and use THAT to drive her crazy. Flip her over on her stomach when you got her all hot and steamy, pin her hands on the bed so that she is on her stomach, and slowly let your c*ck run over her back, buttocks and down to her vagoo and then slide it in very very slowly while kissing / licking her neck. She'll be up for doggy the 2nd or 3rd time after this. Same with all the other stuff. Don't push too hard, just make her suffer first and then do something new so she cannot resist the want to get off and allow you doing it.
 

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This is one of only two things that would prompt me to dump a girl. The only girls I dump are the ones who won't put out or who are terrible in bed. And I tell them why when I dump them.

Don't have the time or the patience for this sort of thing.
 

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Zarky said:
This is one of only two things that would prompt me to dump a girl. The only girls I dump are the ones who won't put out or who are terrible in bed. And I tell them why when I dump them.

Don't have the time or the patience for this sort of thing.

She isn't terrible in bed. She rides me like a champ and when we do missionary she thrusts like a crazy chic. She doesn't just lay there like a log.

It's only been 2 weeks I can turn her dirty.

I have some ideas now thanks guys.
 

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Hey Blunt, you do what you gotta do, I'm just joining in the discussion here because it's a favourite topic of mine, not offering advice as such.

This is one of only two things that would prompt me to dump a girl. The only girls I dump are the ones who won't put out or who are terrible in bed. And I tell them why when I dump them.

Don't have the time or the patience for this sort of thing.
Agreed. Let's say you do go to the trouble (a lot of trouble) of turning a nervous prude into a dirty nympho, yet again. Realistically, you get a few weeks to several months benefit out of that. You're really training her for all the guys down the road. That gets real old, real quick.

Why should you sit around NOT getting what you want? YOU'RE THE MAN!
And this! I'm sure straight up and down sex with a smokin foreign honey has it's charm. So does doing despicable things to a dirty Milf. Do both. I don't expect to ever have ALL my needs met by one woman and Blunt probably doesn't either, I'm just making a general point.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
My new foreign girl is a prude and it sucks..
She is a prude with you cause her attraction is not hugh enough... and you know it..

listen to women talk .. they always have stories of men who they hardly Fed then there are them men they Fed 5 times a day...lol
 

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She is a prude with you cause her attraction is not hugh enough... and you know it..

listen to women talk .. they always have stories of men who they hardly Fed then there are them men they Fed 5 times a day...lol

Nah I think she is just inexperienced. I think she's attracted enough that she would marry me if I asked her.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
She made me wait 7 dates to bang her, and I got her to spread em by DUMPING her for being a prude, then she spread em on the next date. So obviously she didn't want me to go away since she came back with the p/ssy after I dumped her.
Ok, #1.) Imagine if you had of used the two strikes rule. You could have been hitting it atleast 5 dates ago.

#2.) Fake like your going to dump her if she isnt going to be more open or lay off the sex ad I bet she'll come back to you.

As far as Religion goes that is a BS reason, what religion allows a girl to bang a guy but not do certain positions with her?
 

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Ok, #1.) Imagine if you had of used the two strikes rule. You could have been hitting it atleast 5 dates ago.
Not really. Maybe she didn't like me enough after 2 dates to give a crap if I dumped her. I made sure after 6 dates she liked me enough that I knew she would come back if I dumped her. I coordinated it that way. I dumped her for the sole purpose of her coming back with the p/ssy and it worked.


#2.) Fake like your going to dump her if she isnt going to be more open or lay off the sex ad I bet she'll come back to you.
I might do that if all else fails. First I am going to try what the guys above suggested.

As far as Religion goes that is a BS reason, what religion allows a girl to bang a guy but not do certain positions with her?
She says she has NEVER done doggie and NEVER even watched a porn. If this is true, she has probably never done oral either. I can't believe it but it's possible since she wasn't raised in America slut culture.

It will take time to introduce her to these things if she is brand new. Her ex'es were probably happy with whatever they got and never tried to push her limits.
 

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Update

Well she came over Friday night and I tried SandHawks advice but I was drunk so I don't remember if I did it right. I got her really horny and talked about her being a "good girl" and we started going at it. Then I took Tigueres advice and stopped midway through and tried to eat her out. She still stopped me from doing it! She knows I want to do it, but she is resisting.

Also, she doesn't drink and won't get drunk. I like to drink so I am usually the only one getting a good buzz before the fooling around and she is completely sober.

I think I'm just going to be straight with her and tell her I need to get the freak on or else. What do you think I should say exactly?
 

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Why is it I never been able to come across this sort of problems before? I am puzzled.

Oh yeah,I forgot the reason why I never enocunter any of these problems because I place standards, these might not be high standards but at least I have standards so I qualify and filter girls.

I give girls test.
They also give some test though,
If you like the challenge of turning prudes into delicious nymphs then you have your own freewill. It is your choice but I surely will not do it because it entails massive investment.
At your rate of investment, it is scary, you are so close to getting tied down to marriage. But if marriage is your cup of tea then who am I to stop you.
Everyone has their own choice anyway. Goodluck.
 

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Alchemystic said:
Why is it I never been able to come across this sort of problems before? I am puzzled.

Oh yeah,I forgot the reason why I never enocunter any of these problems because I place standards, these might not be high standards but at least I have standards so I qualify and filter girls.
What standards do you have? If she doesn't suck your d!ck fast, you dump her? Good luck with that. I have dated all the sluts in my town and you can have them.


I give girls test.
They also give some test though,
If you like the challenge of turning prudes into delicious nymphs then you have your own freewill. It is your choice but I surely will not do it because it entails massive investment.
What test? And what prudes have you dated? If you are in America, I can only assume you have dated sluts. I have dated sluts for the past 6 years. I find it refreshing a girl acts like this.


At your rate of investment, it is scary, you are so close to getting tied down to marriage. But if marriage is your cup of tea then who am I to stop you.
Everyone has their own choice anyway. Goodluck.

I haven't bought her a diamond ring yet, don't worry. I haven't invested anything.

I won't invest anything until she sucks my d!ck like a pro. If I have to train her, then I will. That's why I posted this thread.
 

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Hey bluntmaster we should be friends instead of fighting. I come from the land of prudes and live in a strict conservative religious community full of virgin prudes. My community is so populated with prudes, in just 1 square kilometer, you can find a Born - Again Christianity, 7th day Adventist, Mormons, Muslims, Bible Baptist, Evangelist, Romance Catholic etc, etc, etc, etc and all sorts of conservative religious prudes.
We should swap places. There are so many of these prudes here. You should visit Southeast Asia sometime?

I could introduce you to all of these conservative religious, innocent virginal prudes that you so fondly adore/admire but mostly adore.

Are you handsome and rich? There is a virginal, prude sitting beside me right now wanting to get to know you. Give me your IM, Myspace, Faceboook and she is all yours.
There is a ton of them here nagging me and asking me to give to them your contact information.
They are very short girls about 4'3 - 4'9 in height.

They have read your post and told me that "There is no such thing as a prude but there no such thing as a slut either, A girl is only a prude if she is not In love with a man but if a girl is crazily In Love with a man then she will make exceptions and disobey some norms."
 

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ahahahahahhahaah ya blunt give him ur info.. dont be shy... he comes from prude land sounds legit to me..
 

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Alchemystic said:
Hey bluntmaster we should be friends instead of fighting. I come from the land of prudes and live in a strict conservative religious community full of virgin prudes. My community is so populated with prudes, in just 1 square kilometer, you can find a Born - Again Christianity, 7th day Adventist, Mormons, Muslims, Bible Baptist, Evangelist, Romance Catholic etc, etc, etc, etc and all sorts of conservative religious prudes.
We should swap places. There are so many of these prudes here. You should visit Southeast Asia sometime?

I could introduce you to all of these conservative religious, innocent virginal prudes that you so fondly adore/admire but mostly adore.

Are you handsome and rich? There is a virginal, prude sitting beside me right now wanting to get to know you. Give me your IM, Myspace, Faceboook and she is all yours.
There is a ton of them here nagging me and asking me to give to them your contact information.
They are very short girls about 4'3 - 4'9 in height.

They have read your post and told me that "There is no such thing as a prude but there no such thing as a slut either, A girl is only a prude if she is not In love with a man but if a girl is crazily In Love with a man then she will make exceptions and disobey some norms."

Ofcourse I am handsome and rich. This is the internet! I make millions each week selling stocks. Oh wait.. or is that cordon.

You might have a point about the "in love" thing. I have only been with her for a couple months. And her excuse to be a prude is she is "not ready" for the freaky stuff. It takes time to make a chic in love with you. I think it will just take some more time, she still isn't sure about me. Probably because I'm not an AFC asking her to marry me and telling her I love her all the time. In fact, I never say it and I don't contact her much. She wonders in the back of her mind if I am seeing other chics, even though I am not. But if she keeps up the prudeness, I will look for a side dish or just dump or altogether.
 

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Well blunt.. You have a few choices to make here...

You can

A) be patient and gradually work her in one thing at a time that you'd like her to do.

B) be demanding tell her you want her to move forward these ideas she has about sexuality are dated and your gonna leave her if this continues.

C) cheat on her

D) dump her

It all really comes down to how amazing she is as a person. If this girl is a really score then I would suggest you wait some time for it. If she is not then well why are you putting in this much effort into it?

With A) everyone has to do that in a relationship to get what they want. No woman is wired to do all the stuff an individual male would want. Some might give head but hate anal others might hate getting eaten out. e.g It comes down to how patient/creative you are with making them comfortable with it.

If she's a good person you'd consider being patient if her outside of the bed room personality blows then why waste time?

Everything has some sort of investment vs reward in life. If the investment exceeds the reward to you personally at any point then you kick it out of your life.
 
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