NEW Facts for real STRENGTH & CONFIDENCE!

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  1. Robert Jordon

    Robert Jordon Don Juan

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    Do you want to double or even triple your success with women?

    If you want to gain greater personal
    confidence and strength and discover the real
    Truth about jerks! This section is for you!

    Most People want very much to be strong, but do not seem to be able to find the real strength they yearn for. Instead, they find qualities that pass themselves off as strength, but secretly leave these people feeling weak.
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    Some Examples of FALSE STRENGTH and FALSE CONFIDENCE
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    - Lashing out in anger when frustrated
    - Demanding that we are right
    - Blaming someone else for causing the problem
    - Being loud and intimidating, or cold and critical

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    Now Here are some Examples of REAL STRENGTH and CONFIDENCE!
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    - Remaining calm in a crisis
    - Never feeling the need to prove ourselves to anyone
    - Seeking to solve the problem rather than placing blame
    - Seeing all problems and setbacks as necessary steps to greater success in the future.

    With the above said. Please take a look at the first list(FALSE CONFIDENCE). Isn't
    This how many jerks act??. It has been said many times that "Jerks" just
    APPEAR confident and in control, but in reality they are only using anger and
    Aggression to mask their fears and insecurities!

    Unfortunately, girls don't see the fakery in the attitudes the jerks possess, so they
    are attracted to them. The problem with this is, although the jerk can attract the
    girls, he often ends up breaking there hearts and losing them. So what is the answer? We all
    know full well that being the "nice guy" doesn't work? The answer lies within the
    qualities listed in the second category above (REAL STRENGHT/CONFIDENCE) If
    we can learn to be cool and together and emit true confidence. We will not only attract
    the women of our dreams, but we will also possess the skills to KEEP THEM IN
    OUR LIFE. Practice this for yourself. It isn't easy, but it will sure put you ahead
    Of the average guy!


    Rob,


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    The Difference Between Winning and Losing, Is Knowing...

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  2. SuperM

    SuperM Senior Don Juan

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    Good post... yep it's hard to find that balance, but I feel myself getting there little by little everyday... but if I had to choose between the two I would say that it's much better to be the jerk than the nice guy.
     
  3. Anti-Dump

    Anti-Dump Master Don Juan

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    At least you would start closer to home and reality.
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    Robert, you are right when you say the girls don't see the true insecurity in the Jerk. It sucks but that's the truth.

    They want strength and THAT'S the side they must see first. The 'soft' side should only be revealed after a long time.

    Anti-Dump
     
  4. Brazilian_Blues_Boy

    Brazilian_Blues_Boy Master Don Juan

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    the old tips are so hot
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