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Never wait for sex

PappyS

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Some women will try to make guys wait for sex. Sometimes older women who've been around the block will unilaterally decide that they won't have sex anymore until marriage. Or that they'll make guys wait for 6 months, 9 months or some other specified length of time.

Some guys will be friends with a girl for a long time, in the vague hope that one day she'll decide to have sex with them. But usually they never get the pvssy.

Pardon my French but this is bullsh!t.

Women have officially and collectively given up the right to make men wait for sex. Women have to give up the pvssy yesterday in order to be worth spitting on. If they're old and ugly and have been banged by 50,000 other men then they have to give it up 6 months ago.

This is because women who really like guys fvck fast. I've seen it and so has everyone else. There are 12 and 13 year old girls sucking d!ck. There are 15, 16, 17 year olds fvcking in the washrooms in high schools. There are college girls slvtting it up in bars and nightclubs. There are middle aged married women cheating on their husbands at work. There are single middle aged women sleeping with married men.

But some of you guys think that you have to wait for sex. And some women think they can get guys to wait.

F-U-C-K that. These women's vaginas aren't worth that much. Is she a 12 out of 10 in the looks department? Is her vagina going to spray pleasant designer fragrances and massage your penis while you're having sex with her? The answer is no. It is just another pvssy and it probably isn't that tight anyway.

Women have to give it up fast or they're not worth the time.

So stop wasting time on 45 year old born again virgins whose STD-ridden loose vaginas feel worse than a masturbation hand grip. Stop being "friends" with girls, spending money on them and listening to their jabbering without getting any pvssy in return. If she liked you she would've fvcked you within 5 minutes of meeting you.

Basically if a woman doesn't fvck you fast don't waste any energy on her. Go back to playing videogames and watching porn. Don't waste time and resources when women don't deliver the goods.
 

C-Damage

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Good post in my opinion. If she isn't putting out then go **** some other slut, that way not only do you get some sex but you also force the issue and will probably crack into your original target aswell.
 

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This may come as a surprise to some people, but women are human beings.

Why does this matter?

If a woman isn't just trying to get fcked, then she's probably going to want to make sure that the guy she's seeing is at least not a pickup artist.

As human beings, they tend to avoid being hurt or having themselves put at risk physically. Aside from being btchz to most men they meet, many women are guarded against jackas's just trying to stick it and quit it, and they guard themselves by not sleeping with someone who is essentially a total stranger when they first meet.

Making a man wait is a defense mechanism. Yes, this defense mechanism can be manipulated, broken down, or broken through, but that's all it is.

I personally like to get to know a girl before pokin her, because then I know if she deserves it. Most don't. Some beg. The answer is usually no. Because of this, I understand when a girl does this to me, and it doesn't worry me. I don't pursue a woman just to get my thang wet, so waiting a few dates doesn't phase me at all. If she turns out to be a dud, then I feel glad I didn't waste my time.

I assume some women are the same way, especially those in high demand.
 

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I share part of what DR said and I want to do a clarification.

It's right to expect some intimacy and it's a good idea to leave any girl that dont give anything,however as I said DR explained it best.
I consider enough when a girl grant me something time by time,getting naked togheter the first week,an handjob a couple of days later and so on.

I'm fine with them needing time as long as they show that they are willing to give something as much as I'm doing giving them my attention and time.

The problem is the girl that always find excuse and is never in the mood and show that she is only looking for attention,in that case you're right to leave.
What we have to look for a signs of intimate interest as much as we look for high level of general interest before nexting her.
 

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Strelok said:
I share part of what DR said and I want to do a clarification.

It's right to expect some intimacy and it's a good idea to leave any girl that dont give anything,however as I said DR explained it best.
I consider enough when a girl grant me something time by time,getting naked togheter the first week,an handjob a couple of days later and so on.

I'm fine with them needing time as long as they show that they are willing to give something as much as I'm doing giving them my attention and time.

The problem is the girl that always find excuse and is never in the mood and show that she is only looking for attention,in that case you're right to leave.
What we have to look for a signs of intimate interest as much as we look for high level of general interest before nexting her.
YES. An escalating indication that we will have sex some time in the future is good enough.

Some girls (through stupidity or lack of interest) try to make me wait and gave me NOTHING along the way. No sleeping over. No HJ's, BJ's, whatever. And then it's a surprise when I stop returning their calls.

I don't need to bang a girl on the first date for the extra notch in my belt. But I do need to know that I'm not getting dragged along just to parade some chick around town.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Iceberg, totally agree about that last bit. If I feel like I'm being led on for attention or for social proof, then I drop off faster than the 12th digit of an irrational number on a basic calculator.
 

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Absolutely hilarious PappyS. As a woman, I can understand your annoyance with the wait-game especially when that same woman who says she has to wait just banged a stranger a week ago. Personally, I have no hard fast rule, but I have to be comfortable being myself with a man- I have to sense our interaction will be satisfactory
 

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Right on, new gal! I'm not about to bother to set up a lovemaking session, or risk a disease/pregnancy, with someone that I dont perceive a pretty strong interest running in both directions.
 

RockaRolla25

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So basically:

If a girl gives you sex right away, she's a slut and she's not worth it.

If a girl makes you wait for sex, she's a b.itch for making you wait and she's not worth it.

What have we learned? That all women are worthless. :)
 

B012

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RockaRolla25 said:
So basically:

If a girl gives you sex right away, she's a slut and she's not worth it.

If a girl makes you wait for sex, she's a b.itch for making you wait and she's not worth it.

What have we learned? That all women are worthless. :)
Think he was talking more about women who intentionally make guys wait for months.
 
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