LuckyStrike88
Don Juan
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If a women leaves you she has her reasons, she wants what she wants. Just as you want what you want. You cannot blame her for not staying with you if she doesn't want to.
Maybe even if she cheats on you or leaves you for another man. It is still not useful or in your best interest to hate her, hate is like poison. And when you feel hate for someone you are the one being poisoned. Not her, she is having the best time with her new man.
A more mature and useful thing to do is take full responsibility. You did not make her feel the way she wanted to feel. And her treating you badly, you got what you allowed. Not all woman are going to be like this, but remember you chose her. Maybe somewhere in the back of your head you already knew the kind of type she was from the beginning? And you should not have gotten involved in the first place, no matter how hot she was.
Take full responsibility, reflect and look at yourself to what you could have done better. Maybe even thank her for the lesson and move on. Whenever you screw up and feel bad think about the price you paid (pain,disappointment,depression) and then think about the lesson you learned. In alot of cases you will find that the price you paid is well worth the lesson you learned.
Being able to think in this way will make you feel so much better and you will grow. And it will make you and other people respect you so much more.
Maybe even if she cheats on you or leaves you for another man. It is still not useful or in your best interest to hate her, hate is like poison. And when you feel hate for someone you are the one being poisoned. Not her, she is having the best time with her new man.
A more mature and useful thing to do is take full responsibility. You did not make her feel the way she wanted to feel. And her treating you badly, you got what you allowed. Not all woman are going to be like this, but remember you chose her. Maybe somewhere in the back of your head you already knew the kind of type she was from the beginning? And you should not have gotten involved in the first place, no matter how hot she was.
Take full responsibility, reflect and look at yourself to what you could have done better. Maybe even thank her for the lesson and move on. Whenever you screw up and feel bad think about the price you paid (pain,disappointment,depression) and then think about the lesson you learned. In alot of cases you will find that the price you paid is well worth the lesson you learned.
Being able to think in this way will make you feel so much better and you will grow. And it will make you and other people respect you so much more.