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need some info on direct game

xdreamz

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yesterday i was at the club trying direct game, i was telling this one HB 9 that she was sexy and at first she ran away but i was like "i said you were sexy ey!" and grabbed her arm and i could tell she liked it she seemed interested really fast.

but after a few minutes, i wasn't too sure what i was supposed to be doing so i started saying whatever came to mind and she ended up hitting me and kicked me in the knee (maybe it was playful?)...

any suggestions on what to do?
 

DonJoseCantosie

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She prolly thought in the manner that u did it, at the start...that u were just saying it to say it...but then after that...she took it as flirting. But next time tho, when u say sexy...look deep in her eyes with a smile...i mean deep with a warm smile. Trust me the reaction will be different. Just do it in a manner of "Ur beautiful and i chose you" than just a compliment, she could've taken it just as "only" a compliment. Direct is not a compliment but as a qualifier.

For further info with direct:

www.direct-method.com/invisionboard

AND

The former main direct site, but has lots of excellent posts

www.directthegame.com

Forgot to mention, she was being playful with u i bet ;-)
 

marinetti

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you have some major balls man, but probably didn't have the proper vibe to pull off a direct "you are sexy" opening.
 

milrenkb

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Juggler (Charisma Arts), Woodhaven, Sean Newman (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UI23x_usRY) and Zan Perion are all good at teaching natural game. Keep in mind direct game doesn't mean you have too open with a compliment. Those guys will teach you more than I ever could in a single post.

One more thing, if you do open with a compliment it should always be sincere. The best way to describe it would be 50% platonic/50% sexual.

- All killer no filler
 
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