need some advice

[matt428carr]

alright guys...here it is....

i dated this one girl on and off for almost 5 years...very passionate relationship in all aspects.well about a month ago we were broken up at the time and i (in a drunken stuper)asked out one of her friends....next day after realizing what i had done i appologized to the girl and left it at that....well she told my ex...

my ex then proceeded to call me every name in the book...im being treated like i actually ****ed her friend or something when that totally isnt the case.i made a mistake and copped to it with the ex,appologized numerous times,but now her and all her little friends give me the worst dirty looks when i see them.

my issue is im still sprung on my ex...even after all this time and fights and breakups.she now thinks im a discusting pig (as she put it)....what do i do??i see her at work...how do i handle it???....do you think she actually hates me now or is she acting that way to get me to beg her back???

how do i play this???

and help would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Joe Stud]

Stop groveling. You two were broke up, all is fair. Besides, you apoligized already. Tell her to accept it, or move on. :trouble: Maybe if she sees you just might move on when you two are "broke up", she will try to work harder to compromise... instead of always "breaking up". Man up! :rockon:

 

[PlaysToWin]

She just called you every name in the book and turned all her friends against you. Why on earth do you want her back?

how do i play this???

Get over her. Move on.

 

[sodbuster]

YOu are single-date who you want. My ex wife doesn't have sh1t to say about who I date. If you aren't broken up, you need to be, why tolerate drauma in your life. Start fresh with a new circle of friends,maybe a new job and never sh1t where you eat again[no coworkers]

 

[arutha]

my ex then proceeded to call me every name in the book...im being treated like i actually ****ed her friend or something when that totally isnt the case.i made a mistake and copped to it with the ex,appologized numerous times,but now her and all her little friends give me the worst dirty looks when i see them.

Really... I can see why someone would get a bit upset if you started dating one of their friends, but yeah like the others said an ex has no say in who you hit on now. A couple years ago I dumped a girl (1.5 years) for her best friend, yeah it wrecked their friendship and the ex sent me big long abusive texts and emails for a couple weeks, but I just ignored them and had a really good relationship with the next girl. Pity she doesn't have any hot avaiable friends for me to jump to next.