I haven't been to this forum in over a year or so, because I really didn't need to be here, that and I felt I in general I was attending way too many online forums, something I have now cut down on immensely. I hardly use the internet for too much other than e-mail nowadays.
Anyways, first let me say I'm not interested in becoming a 'DJ' in the sense that I want multiple sexual encounters with various women. That's not something I'm interested at all. I'm looking for a serious relationship right now.
Here's my story. I'll welcome any and all serious advice. If people have questions I'll respond in the thread, but after this thread I think I'll disappear again. I just needed to here other thoughts on this and I have no one else to really go to. Hopefully some pros can assist.
I'm in my third year of university in the US, however this semester I am studying abroad in Europe, mainly working.
Something I've learned during this is for some reason not too many guys study abroad, so there are women aplenty. Guys if you're considering studying abroad, do it!
So during my work here, as I've just implied, I've been fortunate to work with a decent amount of American students my age. One girl and I (well I feel anyway) were instantly attracted to each other. Eye contact never deviates. I really don't think this qualifies as the "don't date people you work with" thing, because technically we're all students, and it's a temporary job.
We have gone out 4 times, mainly over the past month. I have kiss-closed.
Now, as I said earlier, I want a relationship right now. I'm a grown man, I'm an adult. However...I've never had a serious relationship before.
Here's the kicker: The girl is gone right now travelling. Of course I can't blame her because that's what students do when they have semesters abroad. I will not see her until April 3rd at work, which will only be in passing, we don't work together.
A few days later, I am doing some traveling myself, which will last 4 days. Add all this time together, and in theory I have a total of a week and a half to see her before I go back to the States because my program ends. In addition to this, she lives across the country from me back home. Not like east coast-west coast, but far enough that it's too far to drive.
We have a lot in common, and I really like this girl. After my stint of traveling which I've mentioned above, I want to see where she stands on pursuing an LDR. This is something I am confident I can handle.
Does this seem feasible to others? Share your thoughts. Thanks guys.
Anyways, first let me say I'm not interested in becoming a 'DJ' in the sense that I want multiple sexual encounters with various women. That's not something I'm interested at all. I'm looking for a serious relationship right now.
Here's my story. I'll welcome any and all serious advice. If people have questions I'll respond in the thread, but after this thread I think I'll disappear again. I just needed to here other thoughts on this and I have no one else to really go to. Hopefully some pros can assist.
I'm in my third year of university in the US, however this semester I am studying abroad in Europe, mainly working.
Something I've learned during this is for some reason not too many guys study abroad, so there are women aplenty. Guys if you're considering studying abroad, do it!
So during my work here, as I've just implied, I've been fortunate to work with a decent amount of American students my age. One girl and I (well I feel anyway) were instantly attracted to each other. Eye contact never deviates. I really don't think this qualifies as the "don't date people you work with" thing, because technically we're all students, and it's a temporary job.
We have gone out 4 times, mainly over the past month. I have kiss-closed.
Now, as I said earlier, I want a relationship right now. I'm a grown man, I'm an adult. However...I've never had a serious relationship before.
Here's the kicker: The girl is gone right now travelling. Of course I can't blame her because that's what students do when they have semesters abroad. I will not see her until April 3rd at work, which will only be in passing, we don't work together.
A few days later, I am doing some traveling myself, which will last 4 days. Add all this time together, and in theory I have a total of a week and a half to see her before I go back to the States because my program ends. In addition to this, she lives across the country from me back home. Not like east coast-west coast, but far enough that it's too far to drive.
We have a lot in common, and I really like this girl. After my stint of traveling which I've mentioned above, I want to see where she stands on pursuing an LDR. This is something I am confident I can handle.
Does this seem feasible to others? Share your thoughts. Thanks guys.