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[Tiggis]

Okay if any of you know my story I used to be fat..

Now after my gym time Im really looking good..

I have tried to get a date with this girl for about 3 years.. but she thinks Im kind of a weiner ..

but she just broke up with a guy about 4 months ago that she had been dating.. (he had money and was a great guy)

She on the other hand has a crappy job.. not much of a life now I think prob still missing him.. or the relationship..

So since I have been coming here I decided to be very direct the last few times I have seen her..

Last sat I said..

Hey where do you work now? She answered.

Where do you live? she answered.

When is our date? she said when ever you want too..

so its tonight.. I got a resturant picked out. (my fav)

I think she is going because she is bored and just wanted a date.. but .. I want to sleep with her.. so I know I have to increase my value on the male scale in her eyes..

Help .. Suggestions.. info..

I know not to fawn.. be cool.. treat her like a guy .. ect..

dress to kill.. be polite but not a pushover..

Shes down.. vunerable.... but man what an ass she has..

help me guys and Ill give you and update Monday..

 

[Disco]

First thing you have to do is loose this mindset:

"I think she is going because she is bored and just wanted a date.. "

Go into it with the attitude that she's lucky to be out with you. I would def. stay away from any talk about her ex. As soon as it comes up you have to flip it or your date will be a disaster. Don't say anything negative about him if she brings him up, only change the subject. I can't stress how important that is. Also, do something opposite of what you thought her x would do.

 

[stormwriter]

Dude, i wouldn't invest much time, effort, or money on this chick. Someone didn't sprinkle pixy dust on her to make her all-of-the-sudden attracted to you after three years of not being attracted to you.

This paragraph says it well too:

"She on the other hand has a crappy job.. not much of a life now I think prob still missing him.. or the relationship.."

So, she's probably lonely and wants attention, maybe even a friendly cry-pillow. (YOU)

So, you are right: don't listen to her stupid sob stories.

This is good practice for you though, cause it sounds like your game is improving since you've lost some weight and started looking better. Congratulations on that!

Have fun, but don't expect too much out of this.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Grats on losing weight...moving on.

Look you re low on the Interest Level with this gal. You have ALOT of ground to cover in order for her to look at you as a potential BF.

Now if it is sex you just want, the ball is in your court if you play it right. You need to dress good, smell good (not to strong), don't be a chump in convo or acting around her. BE THE MAN! Not to ****y though. When you goto the restaurant talk to her about what she likes and order for her, after just smile. Order a nice bottle of wine, remember be the man!

Keep the convo 70/30. Let he just talk about herself but intercept the conversation if it leads to her ex or ex's. Keep that crap off the table. Touch her hands occasionaly but don't grope. Don't make crazy comments about her, she already knows she is good looking.

Don't expect sex that night, but allow this date night to be proof that you are worth having as company. She may see you in a new light the next day.

Can you give us some background on this girl, you've known her for 3 years so what is she like, what kind of girl is she?

M.A.C.

 

[Donny Brasco]

OK, here is my best advice on how to get laid

Do something exciting and out fo the ordinary. Fast cars and dangerous situations will get her juices flowing, you want her not to talk about her ex. The best way to do that is to keep her entertained. If you have the cash do something really crazy, like skydiving (really!) or if you have a park in your city rollercoasters, or cool haunted houses (like the Tower of Terror at Disney World) will freak her out. Water skiing, jet skiing, you know whats really exciting and sometimes totally free - cliff diving (you don't have to dive, you can jump). Even if she doesn't jump, get her to stand near the edge to get that sense of vertigo. Bungee jump. Go to the Casino or the track (unless you live in Atlantic City or Vegas where stuff like that is run of the mill). Betting two or three bucks on the horses can be exciting. Go down to track level if you can or to the stables to get up close to the horses, they might help create some sense of excitement (big, strong, smelly horses!). Once I took a girl to the car dealership and we test drove some cool sports cars, here they let us just take them, it seems wierd that you can just hop in a $50k car and go.

Thats about all I can think of, have fun and don't be a wiener, remember, she's the one lucky to be out with you and not vice versa.

 

[Tiggis]

Background

she got pregnant had a kid young.. her mom raises..

She dated a wild man for a while.. he drank too much and she did too.. hey split..

she dated this guy who was nerdy not great looking but very responsible .. opposite of the wild man.. In fact he was a catch for her but I dont think she new it.. so he left..

In short.. no I dont want a gf.. but her body is fine.. its a conquest guys.. just want to see that look on her face..

Im better educated, make more money, higher social class, in fact the only thing she has that I want is her ass.. she is a looker... dont see any future past the pillow..

My plan is to dress very sharp.. nice resturant .. some jazz.. and see her reactions..

Im not wasting anything on this chick if I dont see interest ...

If she does not give me the eye contact, the smiles, the body language.. or the touch.. I will pull out drop her off and continue towards another target..


I do want to thank everyone though.. I have learned and changed so much from all your info..

when I started here I was

250
38 inch waist
didnt know how to dress
waited for girls to show interest in me very shy..

Now! after this website and 12 weeks in gold gym 5 days a week....

212
32 inch waist
subscribe to GQ
show confidence (even when I dont feel it). Ask, laugh, play cool, look for body language, word games,

Now I am dating

A model
an interiour designer
a massage lady
the lady who hooked up my gas
a mother of 3

No lies.. and they are all damn fine looking.. its amazeing!

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

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Good luck my friend, and enjoy the women, arn't they fun!

M.A.C.