Tao of Steve
Don Juan
i have recently made great strides. i have become far more comf with women, approaching them, chatting them etc.
i finaly made my 1st cold PU's last week - 3 in 2 days.
one was in a group of girls - all students from diff countries. i was charismatic in front of all of them, chatting them up, being the center of the group etc.
i asked the one out - the main one i was talking to (she asked me for my #). she quickly and exictedly accepts. however, she asks if its ok if her friends come (she is latin american, and the culture is a bit more traditional, she doesnt really know me etc., so i think its a safety thing).
i chuckle and say 'its ok, but it would be more fun if just u and i go. she accepts.
were going out tonight. she calls today, and asks if i can do a favor. her friend is going to be downtown near where we are (she lives near me) and doesnt want to go home alone, can i drive her?
i say she has to meet me where i am, and it has to be by 11, and since its not out of my way, i'll do it.
now i also like this girl too.
did doing this look a) afc - i am going to be viewed as useable)
b) not a big thing
or c) should i also work on this girl?
how should i view this, how should i have reacted, should i not do these types of things again.
now should i drive the one im going out with home too - she lives way on the other side. i dont want to look like a taxi - but it may look bad if i dont. what if she asks me to drive her home?
i finaly made my 1st cold PU's last week - 3 in 2 days.
one was in a group of girls - all students from diff countries. i was charismatic in front of all of them, chatting them up, being the center of the group etc.
i asked the one out - the main one i was talking to (she asked me for my #). she quickly and exictedly accepts. however, she asks if its ok if her friends come (she is latin american, and the culture is a bit more traditional, she doesnt really know me etc., so i think its a safety thing).
i chuckle and say 'its ok, but it would be more fun if just u and i go. she accepts.
were going out tonight. she calls today, and asks if i can do a favor. her friend is going to be downtown near where we are (she lives near me) and doesnt want to go home alone, can i drive her?
i say she has to meet me where i am, and it has to be by 11, and since its not out of my way, i'll do it.
now i also like this girl too.
did doing this look a) afc - i am going to be viewed as useable)
b) not a big thing
or c) should i also work on this girl?
how should i view this, how should i have reacted, should i not do these types of things again.
now should i drive the one im going out with home too - she lives way on the other side. i dont want to look like a taxi - but it may look bad if i dont. what if she asks me to drive her home?