Hey all,i rarely ask for advice on this forum but now i could really use some.
I've been with my current girlfriend for 2.5 years. I'm 22 and she's 20. We have had our share of ups and downs, mostly because of her insecurities and jealousy which really messed everything up. It got the point where i would be affraid to go out anywhere with her, because i knew theres a high chance i will get accused of looking at some other girl and she'll make a scene in public or in front of my friends.
I tried breaking up with her about 5 times already over her jealousy issues, but she just somehow always has a way to convince me that she'll change and that things will get better(i know, pathetic of me).
At first it was just a minor problem,i figured as she gets to know me more she will learn to trust me, but that never happened. She says she does, but i know its not true. And now she is at least trying to hide her emotions and not blow up everytime, but the damage done by the previous incidents is huge and i just dont feel nearly the same about her as i did before, if any.
This would be a lot easier for me if she wasn't such a great girl otherwise. She's the kind of girl i would love to marry. Beautiful, knows how to take care of me, has never said no to me sex-wise, have been faithful to me the whole time we've been together, and many more things.
I'm just not sure that i'll ever find anybody who is as compatible with me as she is. Should i break it off completely or try to work things out and hope for the best(even though all previous attempts didnt quite work out)?
Need some help here guys..
I've been with my current girlfriend for 2.5 years. I'm 22 and she's 20. We have had our share of ups and downs, mostly because of her insecurities and jealousy which really messed everything up. It got the point where i would be affraid to go out anywhere with her, because i knew theres a high chance i will get accused of looking at some other girl and she'll make a scene in public or in front of my friends.
I tried breaking up with her about 5 times already over her jealousy issues, but she just somehow always has a way to convince me that she'll change and that things will get better(i know, pathetic of me).
At first it was just a minor problem,i figured as she gets to know me more she will learn to trust me, but that never happened. She says she does, but i know its not true. And now she is at least trying to hide her emotions and not blow up everytime, but the damage done by the previous incidents is huge and i just dont feel nearly the same about her as i did before, if any.
This would be a lot easier for me if she wasn't such a great girl otherwise. She's the kind of girl i would love to marry. Beautiful, knows how to take care of me, has never said no to me sex-wise, have been faithful to me the whole time we've been together, and many more things.
I'm just not sure that i'll ever find anybody who is as compatible with me as she is. Should i break it off completely or try to work things out and hope for the best(even though all previous attempts didnt quite work out)?
Need some help here guys..